I have been dealing with a whole new issue now that I am well on my way to goal of being at 145lbs. I used to weigh 240. That was just last March. Now i weigh 177. I am not at goal yet but I am starting to feel like this will happen. When I was heavier I kept my urges to myself because I felt gross and not at all sexy. Now I feel a LOT sexier and I am wanting sex a lot. I feel like a pervert. My husband is thrilled but sometimes I feel like hes thinking "Does this girl wanna screw all day long?" I really dont but I am wanting to do it more than 1 time a day. I have also been fantasizing about other men, and having my husband watch. We even rented a video that had a girl giving 3 men head at once. He told me he liked that. I realize that these feelings come from not feeling wanted for so long. Its kind of scarry. I know my husband doesnt want to actually go through with the sexy thoughts and fantasies. He told me so. Not that I would want to really go for that. I am happy with my current sex life. I just feel like I have woken up a sleeping sex pervert(Me):biggrin: Has anyone else had this issue?

i love sex now im down almost fifty pounds and i have a husband and a girlfriend and wow its no fantasy its all true

Wow! Thats pretty excieting. Sounds like you got your cake and your pie too!

sex sex sex all i think about and now i'm flirty with the thought of being with a women just to experiment........

i have thought about that too. I think this is all about feeling like life has been passing me by all these years with me not being happy with myself, Now I am more confindant and I feel like I am not getting any younger and while I am still feeling somewhat young and attractive I want to LIVE again and ENJOY my sexlife.

my problem is I am only 20 and in college...makes it sooo much worse...I check out guys and girls...it so crazy!! and at parties and such....I am just uh...livid!!

Thats the same thing I have been dealing with lately wanting to experiment. lol

why is that....its so funny a girlfriend of mine and I were talking about it last night and oddly she's thought about the same thing.....so obviously its more common than I thought.....its just getting up the courage to go through with it or suppressing the urge with male attention lol

my husband wants me to be with this girl but he also gets her because we do threesomes but the problem is i get jealous when he touches her because im in love with her too can that be in love with a guy and a girl

uhm...I was waiting on you saying you get jealous cause its your man haha....but I guess you can be in love with a guy and girl...ask Tila Tequila :thumbup:

I'm so glad to know I'm not loosing my mind or some evil person. I am feeling all the same things you ladies are discussing! I am nearly 2 years post op. I would never want to return to where I came from!

Oh my! I'm not banded yet. I will be on 12/23. Is this what I have to look forward to? I've always been a sexual person. Can it get any better?:confused_smile:

Yes it gets better. I think the main differnce in my sex life now is being able to express with confidence to my husband what I need in my life sexually. NOW. IF I get a responce IS ANOTHER STORY.

Also, you CAN get into those positions you love but found cumbersome before.

Since last night was the first time I had read on this particular thread, I've thought some more about it. I appreciate a previous post about the addictive discussion in a support meeting. No doubt that most of us who are large or have been large have the tendency to be addicted to food, so it makes perfect sense that we would transfer our addiction somewhere else. We just have to make sure we stay healthy in the adjustment to new ones, away from food. Now I understand more why I went crazy riding a bicycle all the time this past summer! My husband sure appreciated this thread last night!:confused_smile:

why is that....its so funny a girlfriend of mine and I were talking about it last night and oddly she's thought about the same thing.....so obviously its more common than I thought.....its just getting up the courage to go through with it or suppressing the urge with male attention lol

*sings* Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol...

:cheers: :w00t: liquid Courage!