I have been dealing with a whole new issue now that I am well on my way to goal of being at 145lbs. I used to weigh 240. That was just last March. Now i weigh 177. I am not at goal yet but I am starting to feel like this will happen. When I was heavier I kept my urges to myself because I felt gross and not at all sexy. Now I feel a LOT sexier and I am wanting sex a lot. I feel like a pervert. My husband is thrilled but sometimes I feel like hes thinking "Does this girl wanna screw all day long?" I really dont but I am wanting to do it more than 1 time a day. I have also been fantasizing about other men, and having my husband watch. We even rented a video that had a girl giving 3 men head at once. He told me he liked that. I realize that these feelings come from not feeling wanted for so long. Its kind of scarry. I know my husband doesnt want to actually go through with the sexy thoughts and fantasies. He told me so. Not that I would want to really go for that. I am happy with my current sex life. I just feel like I have woken up a sleeping sex pervert(Me):biggrin: Has anyone else had this issue?

Lmao... I know some of these posts are old but wow kinda funny to read I can relate to some of it. lol Always nice to know I'm not just a sick little pervert lmao

Well I am still waiting for my chosen surgeon to be able to accept my insurance so I have not yet started the lap band process. I am around 440 pounds. I have always been very sexual. I have had sex 4 times in a night. I am also a multi orgasmic male. I love sex and making a woman orgasm. My recent ex is prolly very bummed that she will no longer have these as she can no longer masterbate all that sucessfully due to the orgasms I gave her.LOL Anyways I hope that I don't get more sexual with weight loss. I want it every day now sometimes twice a day so I would not want that. Anyways that is my two cents all you ladies enjoy your new found sexuality and I hope your men keep you sastified.

addictions change that's for sure. I had my band done january 2007, and I went from food to exercise...and yes exercise can be an addiction, from that to shopping...now I'm in debt, to sex.

Just thought I would share all that with everyone.