now with all the weightloss I am going to have....my wife and I were throwing around the idea.....anyone ever have one? how did it all come about? just curious....

I think its a great thread, different strokes for different folks we are all different and have different ways of thinking. Good luck everyone!!!

Great reply!!! :wub:

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I just figured if he's willing to share, then I'm guessing he's working really hard to find just the right guy for his lady.

I just figured if he's willing to share, then I'm guessing he's working really hard to find just the right guy for his lady.

Im sure he does!!! :tt1:

I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it at all. My husband and I have done it before, just make sure you are both doing it for the right reasons and the same reasons. My husband and I are very much in love but we are also best friends and that helps a lot. I didn't have that problem of him paying too much attention to her becasue I wanted us both to enjoy it so I didn't keep score. I did notice that he was very attentive towards me and made sure I was totally comfortable 100%. And just a side bar, the first one we had lasted 11 hours, and a few times he took me into another room without her and made love to me then we rejoined me. That sent my confidence and comfort through the roof! Really talk with your wife and make sure she wants to do it for the enkoyment and freakiness of it and not to see how you might react and interact with another woman! ENJOY!

Thanks for the information I am sure it will be very helpful.

I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it at all. My husband and I have done it before, just make sure you are both doing it for the right reasons and the same reasons. My husband and I are very much in love but we are also best friends and that helps a lot. I didn't have that problem of him paying too much attention to her becasue I wanted us both to enjoy it so I didn't keep score. I did notice that he was very attentive towards me and made sure I was totally comfortable 100%. And just a side bar, the first one we had lasted 11 hours, and a few times he took me into another room without her and made love to me then we rejoined me. That sent my confidence and comfort through the roof! Really talk with your wife and make sure she wants to do it for the enkoyment and freakiness of it and not to see how you might react and interact with another woman! ENJOY!

11 hours???!!! WOW!!!!

I can't even imagine what you can do with so much time!!! Tips are welcomed????

11 hrs? I think I'd start getting a little bit bored by then....

I think I would start getting a bit sore by then!LOL!

11 hours.....lube lube lube.....keeps you from getting sore.

Sounds like many of these experiences are one guy with two girls. I don't mean this to sound as snide as I know it will in print, but how many of these "giving" men are willing to have a second man in the bed rather than a second woman?

I've tried it twice with the same partners -- my then long-time boyfriend, and my best male friend. I was fortunate that the issue wasn't ONLY a two-woman-one-man recommendation. And for the record, for me it was much better as a fantasy than the real thing.

i would do that with my wife but I would sit and watch her have some fun.......

Mine was with 2 guys. I am up for 2 women but 2 men is more my liking. My husband is secure enough with himself to have another man around in sex. Its not like he is receiving anything from the other male. Thats my rule: the guys cant touch sexually. Only me! LOL

My then-boyfriend's rule was I couldn't kiss the other guy. Go figger. LOL

My DH and I have swapped with other couples 2 or 3 times. The first time I wasn't mentally ready and he didn't pay attention to me. The woman was very animated and made it seem like she had never been touched or had sex before - that was such a turn off. We learned from that experience, we have rules and keep a close watch on each other. The next time we swapped partners, we both wanted to do it for the right reasons. We also went to a clothing optional swingers resort in Las Cabos Mexico this summer and had a real good time, if you are seriously interested that might be something that you want to look into.

My husband's fantasy is to have a mfm and we are currently looking for the "right" guy. This lifestyle isn't for everyone, but for some of us, it's a good thing.

Good luck to you in all your adventures.