now with all the weightloss I am going to have....my wife and I were throwing around the idea.....anyone ever have one? how did it all come about? just curious....

*snorkle!*

Very interesting...why would someone read the title of this thread, post that they are offended, and then come back several times to make sure EVERYONE knows they are offended?

Just stay away...it'll be easier for you, us and everyone who really DOES want to know more. I haven't participated in a threesome yet, but my interest is definately piqued, and I appreciate all the experienced posters who have contributed. This is NOT something I can ask my girlfriends about, nor can I talk to other married couples we know about this - I know them well enough to know they are NOT this adventuresome.

I LOVE the off-topic area BECAUSE I can get answers to my questions and explore stuff I can't talk with other friends about. THANK YOU for being here, folks, and for sharing. I know I said this before, but I think it bears repeating.

Carry on...I'm learning a LOT!

My friend said today that her husband wants a threesome for christmas!

LOL! I once bought a Thai hooker for a threesome for a boyfriend's birthday!! (oops did I say that out loud?)

i have a friend who recently came to me and admitted her fantasy (to watch her b/f w/ another girl) and asked me to help her find a girl. I seem to be the go to person for info about such things, lol.

Now that she did that, they are becoming more adventurous and planning a 3some. It really suprised me, because this is a friend who before when we were all single and would go to the strip clubs, she was always embarrassed when we bought dances for her from the girls.

O, and btw, she and her b/f are getting married in april. I think as long as all involved are honest about thier intentions and there are no insecureties or jealous feelings, it can work for married couples. I know a few couples who are happily married and have alternative lifestyles. My husband and I have a pretty traditional relationship though, we both experimented and had adventures when we were single (or in my circumstance, in my first marriage-as mentioned before, for the wrong reasons though).

My friend said today that her husband wants a threesome for christmas!

So I ask again: Who is going to pick the extra guy, her or him? :thumbup:

So I ask again: Who is going to pick the extra guy, her or him? :eek:

I'll have to ask her that!!

What's interesting about this comment is that Alex went to some pains to make sure the the Powder Room topics didn't come up on the Home Page. That means you have to go digging to find this thread, either in New Posts, which lists the forum name, or by visiting the Powder Room directly.

Before the site was redesigned, I never saw the powder room on the home page, now, however, it is. This may be something that needs to be brought to Alex's attention. This is how I saw this post today. I do feel, however, that the title of the thread is self-explanatory and anyone who may be offended should not enter:tt2:.

Before the site was redesigned, I never saw the powder room on the home page, now, however, it is.

I dont think having the Powder Room on the home page is an issue, I think the bigger issue is why is the site so DANG slow there are tons of paid adds that Im sure could pay for a little more bandwidth to speed up the site. I love these forums but hate coming here with the speed being so slow. It's a joke how slow the site runs, I think Alex needs to address this way before anything else.

Edited November 8, 200817 yr by Renob

Some days it does better than others. I've had days when everything I tried to read or post simply timed out. It hasn't done that in a little while now, so I guess that's good.

It is very slow at times, I agree. There were even a few days where the site would not load at all. It seems to be a little better since the redesign.

You can tell Alex in the section for feedback and suggestions. I know he has been working constantly to improve it.

I could never watch my bf with another girl. I would be so horribly jealous But I am staying in this thread because it's interesting and to see if anyone comes around in an attacking manor again.

AthinnerDenise - that's my fear with getting involved with a threesome. My DH has said he'd like to see me with a bi / lesbian female, but if she's also into guys, I think I'd be horribly jealous and wouldn't enjoy myself.

With another guy involved, I'd be worried about DH seeing me enjoying myself with another guy, and would he get jealous? He's not suggested THAT, by the way...:tongue2:

I know a lot of the way I'm feeling has to do with my own self-esteem and more than a little insecurity. Some days are better than others...I'm hoping some of this will be resolved once I'm banded and get smaller. A lot of it is tied up in my visual and my health...

I could never watch my husband with another woman either. I'd be wanting to kick some ASS!!!!

AthinnerDenise - that's my fear with getting involved with a threesome. My DH has said he'd like to see me with a bi / lesbian female, but if she's also into guys, I think I'd be horribly jealous and wouldn't enjoy myself.

With another guy involved, I'd be worried about DH seeing me enjoying myself with another guy, and would he get jealous? He's not suggested THAT, by the way...:tongue2:

I know a lot of the way I'm feeling has to do with my own self-esteem and more than a little insecurity. Some days are better than others...I'm hoping some of this will be resolved once I'm banded and get smaller. A lot of it is tied up in my visual and my health...

My husband and I hypothetically talked about doing these things. I had a 3-some before I met him, and got all my adventuring out.. he had not, so I entertained the idea. Anyway, I think what ended up sounding ideal (because I don't want to 'watch' him with another girl, and I don't want him to 'watch' me with another guy) is swinging. We had talked about it, and it ended up fading out because we didn't care that much, or never found people we actually wanted to swing with.. but swinging with another couple, at the same time.. seems a lot safer, no one is 'left out', everyone is getting equal attention.