Anyone wake up to find they had an "open" lapband surgery?

[singledad167 0]

So yea I woke up to an open surgery. I was warned and also did not have a pre op diet. Now I wish I had done a diet prior to surgery.

My family sat in the waiting room, waiting and waiting. No one came and told them anything, and when they asked, everyone looked clueless. Finally the Doc came out and said they had to convert me to an open surgery. MY family was worried, because nothing else was said. Finally four and a half hours later, what was supposed to be a 45 min surgery was over.

In recovery they let my mother and fiance in. My mom didn't tell me she just cried, and my fiance told me they had to open me up. I didn't understand right at first, then it sunk it when I saw the clock and noticed 5 hours had gone by. I had to stay the night in the hospital I hadn't thought that was going to happen, so I wasn't prepared. My fiance stayed with me to help me get out of bed and help me go to the washroom. I walked as much as I could, hooked up to an IV and on way too much pain medication. Now I can't remember if I was in pain or not. My surgery was May 30th.

I went home the next day and spent the next 4 weeks recovery. I was only supposed to be off of my new job as a nurse for 9 days. Thank goodness work was supportive and so was my family and friends.

So now, almost completely healed, as one part stayed open longer due to my weight being mostly in my belly I am feeling a lot better. I wouldn't have changed it for the world, and am so glad I have this band. However looking at my belly and my large incision just makes me realize how unhealthy I was/am at 29. So now with a belly that looks like it was split like a fish I am more determined than ever to use this band of mine to the best of my abilities.

Sorry you had to go through it pb, I felt like I was the only one at times, and was so pissed off at the world, now having been through it I am the better for it. Just take it slow and don't rush give yourself the time to heal, mentally and physically.

Sorry you had to go through it also Shannon. I really think (now) the pre op diet is VERY important. I was glad to hear I didn't have to do a preop, but in hindsight, I would have done one on my own. Might not have changed a thing, but I think I would have had a better chance. Good luck to you, we'll get there!

[Cgailee 1]

Paul,

Good to read your thread and all the support your getting from fellow bandsters. Good to see also that you are having and keeping a positive outlook. That is the only thing you can do, just keep looking up it will be better. Blessings,

Gail

[shannongetsslim 0]

hey Pb,

Yes me too, funny thing was I was going to do one. But my mom, god love her, said well after this you won't be able to eat for a long time. 30 days liquids you know! so I was like your right, I should enjoy myself...I think if she knew that it would have prevented this she would have suggested it. 20/20 hinde sight right? Take care Pb!