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dont leave us for 4 days!!! I totaly love reading your updates. Yeah this thread is off topic but what the heck!! keep us updated. Waaaaay better than a soap opera.

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lol

Before the sex would you have gone to his house and taken care of his dog?

I think you are totaly justified in giving yourself some space I think it is awsome that you are being persued by both guys now that your not sleeping with either. Great feeling isnt it? lol

Just dont forget that friend guy was a friend before. and still wants to be a friend...he is just confused lol

Totaly keep us posted. lol

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Sorry I posted the start of this here. It was personal in the beginning because it was about the sex and the language we were using to talk about it. It just went its own way and I guess since we aren't talking about sex, and the bad language anymore, I can make its own thread if it gets further than this.

I don't think the mods would want the language we are allowed to use here in the singles forum.< /p>

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If you change forusm then you're going to have tell us where you took the thread.

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Yeah cause we are all tuned into your exciting life...lol

Well girls I think I have a date for this weekend!!! woo hoo.

I just have to remember no eating an hour before oral lol

Kinda like the swimming rule lol

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WTG Cerrin. I hope it goes well. Maybe you'll have to start a new thread about your soap opera.

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Yeah cause we are all tuned into your exciting life...lol

Well girls I think I have a date for this weekend!!! woo hoo.

I just have to remember no eating an hour before oral lol

Kinda like the swimming rule lol

holy cow....is it this guys lucky day or what? you havnt even gone on the date yet? is this normal to decide whats going to happen before the date? or is this a 'if they date goes well' type thing.

GOsh if you change threads you HAVE TO HAVE TO let us know. I vote you dont cchange threads btw.

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Whosyadaddy, we started this all about the blow jobs in the beginning, then I had an incident of eating dinner before giving one with one deep throat I pb'd on the guy I was giving it to. So it was decided by all of us here to not eat at least an hour before one.

Now, when I was with fling guy, it always started out with the bj because I like giving them. Best friend guy knew what I was doing with fling guy, well, because he was my best friend.

Anyway, I anticipate a boring few days in the woods, since I am going to upstate NY for the weekend.

Good luck on the date Cerrin, definately no eating for at least an hour.

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holy cow....is it this guys lucky day or what? you havnt even gone on the date yet? is this normal to decide whats going to happen before the date? or is this a 'if they date goes well' type thing.

GOsh if you change threads you HAVE TO HAVE TO let us know. I vote you dont cchange threads btw.

lol oops...umm I have been out with this guy before...But We havent gone all the way yet...But I do see it happening this weekend. lol

So yeah...his lucky day...my lucky day...

lol It is a tit for tat thing lol I like doing it...but so does he lol

So hot damn:lol::tt2: lol

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Thanks Chrisann for the info regarding BJ's and not eating an hour before....So you think I'll be OK if I have lunch and then have my BF for dinner.< /p>

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Does BF stand for best friend? Is there a commonality here of doing best friends?

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Sorry I posted the start of this here. It was personal in the beginning because it was about the sex and the language we were using to talk about it. It just went its own way and I guess since we aren't talking about sex, and the bad language anymore, I can make its own thread if it gets further than this.

I don't think the mods would want the language we are allowed to use here in the singles forum.

The mods have been getting some complaints about the powder room breaking rules. The rules state that there can be no profanity, obsenity or anything to be considered in a pornagraphic nature. I told them we are not talking about pornography, but we do have to be careful of the wording and talking about sex tasefully or we will be in danger of losing the poweder room. I definitely don't want to see that happen.

I wasn't saying to move this to the singles forum for that reason. I meant that a lot of single people have issues that are good to share. We all didn't have some of these issues when we were heavier and didn't feel good enough about ourselves to date. Being thinner and what comes with that, opens a whole new can of worrms, so to speak.

Edited by Oregondaisy

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ATD, I know you're just the messenger, so to speak, but I haven't read anything yet that I'd consider pornographic. Adult, yes....pornographic, no. I kinda think maybe the complainers should maybe not read this thread. After all, post #1 kinda sums it up, eh?

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Does BF stand for best friend? Is there a commonality here of doing best friends?

By BF I think she mean BoyFriend. I have been spelling out Best Guy Friend, cause I do not want to confuse him with being a BF.:biggrin:

Nice seeing the guys in here too, good to see if you have a point of view on all of this....

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