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My surgery date is coming

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On ‎9‎/‎15‎/‎2018 at 1:43 PM, CRD1981 said:

My surgery is on September 26th and I'm extremely nervous.

Good luck!:)

Got my time for the surgery, I have to be at the hospital at 6am and my procedure starts at 7:30. This will all take place on the 26th. I am ready for the surgery part of this to be over. The liquid part of it has not been all that bad. I am doing well. I have managed to get off of all of my shots for my diabetes.

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Got my time for the surgery, I have to be at the hospital at 6am and my procedure starts at 7:30. This will all take place on the 26th. I am ready for the surgery part of this to be over. The liquid part of it has not been all that bad. I am doing well. I have managed to get off of all of my shots for my diabetes.
I have to be at the hospital at 5 a.m. and my surgery starts at 7:30 as well. I'm just feeling all the emotions

I have what seems like an unusual concern. I'm all ready to set my date for VSG and I have a great doctor, just waiting for my insurance authorization, which I hope will come soon. Then I am going to tell my work that I need the time off. I work for a small start up, we just hired an HR person! I'm more worried about getting the time off, and I don't want to disclose what surgery I am having, than anything else. We only get 3 weeks PTO a year and I have taken one. I really hope it will be no big deal, but now I wish I worked for a more normal, large corporation.

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Have you been there more then a year? Family Medical Leave may be an option. However you might have to disclose the type of surgery you are having
12 minutes ago, iattcom said:

Have you been there more then a year? Family Medical Leave may be an option. However you might have to disclose the type of surgery you are having

No, but I am in sales and my sales numbers are quite high, which leads me to believe (hope?) they will want to keep me. If not, I have savings and am prepared to get fired or laid off, get COBRA, and get a new job. I have a couple of standing offers to do sales at other tech companies near me.

They do know I have debilitating back pain (I have a standing desk, etc.) and that is one of the main reasons I am getting the surgery. I (and my doctors) think getting the weight off will really help my back.

At least worrying about this has me totally fearless about the surgery itself! :)

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No, but I am in sales and my sales numbers are quite high, which leads me to believe (hope?) they will want to keep me. If not, I have savings and am prepared to get fired or laid off, get COBRA, and get a new job. I have a couple of standing offers to do sales at other tech companies near me.
They do know I have debilitating back pain (I have a standing desk, etc.) and that is one of the main reasons I am getting the surgery. I (and my doctors) think getting the weight off will really help my back.
At least worrying about this has me totally fearless about the surgery itself! [emoji4]
If it's medical you're safe, as long as you have the surgeon's office send your job a letter. The letter that was sent to my job did not inform what type of surgery I was having only that I'll be out for a short amount of time because I'm having surgery. And as of September 26th I'll be out on medical leave for my job.

Unfortunately, I don't know that to be true for a company smaller than 50 people. I believe the prevailing law is "work at will" which means they can let anyone go for any reason. Is there something legally I don't know about?

My surgery is scheduled for 10/29/2018. it took 5 months to get all of the testing done (EKG, endoscope, colonoscopy, ultrasound, psyc approval). The insurance company gave the OK last Friday. I haven't felt nervous, just excited. I am ready to stop the yoyo diet lifestyle. I have tried all of the regular, and some not so regular, weight loss plans. I would lose well, and then gain it all back, plus few extra pounds. I am ready to leave that in the past as I start this new part of my life.

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My surgery is scheduled for 10/29/2018. it took 5 months to get all of the testing done (EKG, endoscope, colonoscopy, ultrasound, psyc approval). The insurance company gave the OK last Friday. I haven't felt nervous, just excited. I am ready to stop the yoyo diet lifestyle. I have tried all of the regular, and some not so regular, weight loss plans. I would lose well, and then gain it all back, plus few extra pounds. I am ready to leave that in the past as I start this new part of my life.
Let's do this!!!!

My surgery is scheduled for 10/29/2018. it took 5 months to get all of the testing done (EKG, endoscope, colonoscopy, ultrasound, psyc approval). The insurance company gave the OK last Friday. I haven't felt nervous, just excited. I am ready to stop the yoyo diet lifestyle. I have tried all of the regular, and some not so regular, weight loss plans. I would lose well, and then gain it all back, plus few extra pounds. I am ready to leave that in the past as I start this new part of my life.

Thanks for the encouragement!

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