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Did your marriage or relationship die after you lost the weight?

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So I weighed 380 and my wife is like 300 pounds.Now i’m 167 pounds.She really wasn’t supportive of my surgery.She was making comments about me calling me skin and bones man.She also bankrupted our family spending over 5000 dollars on a video game because I lost weight.She has no interest in me emotionally or physically.I am only posting a pic to get honest feedback.Believe me I can handle it.She has made me feel like I’m very unattractive even though I think I look ok.I have decided to divorce her because I can’t take getting crapped on anymore?I don’t regret my surgery even though I’m getting divorced.I hate to say it but she really made makes questions if I am hideous now.I can handle blunt truth.Have any of you had issues after a bypass too or other weight loss tool?

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  • macadamia
    macadamia

    I'm so very sorry that you are having to deal with this too. Good luck with everything and if you need someone to talk to on the phone, message me and I'll give you my phone number. I'm a great listen

  • KCgirl061
    KCgirl061

    You don't look hideous, you look healthy. I don't know if its too late for your marriage but she could definitely benefit from counseling. Depending on where you are emotionally, you probably could

  • FLHappyGirl
    FLHappyGirl

    Sorry to hear this, it must be hard for you! I would bet your wife is insecure in her own weight and now she feels like she doesn't have a partner in her unhealthy lifestyle. Don't let that derail you

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1 hour ago, George OG said:

So a question for everyone.I really feel like I want to at least start talking to women/getting to know them.No sex or anything even though I’m in pain from lack of it?Would it be wise to just get to know them?

Not while you're married, it's not fair to any women you may meet.

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53 minutes ago, sillykitty said:

Not while you're married, it's not fair to any women you may meet.

That’s fair enough.Thsnk you for that insight.This is all uncharted territory for me so I want to go about things the right way.

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