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Curious to know if your sex life changed after surgery? Did you get more aggressive an attitude?

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You mean like spanking and stuff?

Oh yeah. Leather masks, ball gags, the works.

My safe word is "Muscle Milk"

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Muscle Milk ?!? lol chocolate or vanilla you are too much lol. I meant do you argue more or are more sexually aroused with spouse. Argue more because you cant turn to food anymore. I feel like Ill be a sex addict if I dont have food

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Very honestly....

I really can't speak on this one cause I've always had a pretty good sex life. Not too much has changed.

My back hurts less the day after. LOL. That's about it.

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Probably shouldn't puzzle on this cause I've been widowed for 5 1/2 years but a lighter weight and slimmer body would help you get into the contortions you had trouble achieving before. My PCP, the impertinent elf, asked me recently
"Are you still sexually active?"
I looked him right in the eye and said "No -but I live in hope!"
Score one for the Senior Team!

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I have become more aggressive. I mean my sex life has always been great. The problem was, I was not able to move around a lot. My sex drive has increased. I also can handle sex for longer periods of time without getting winded. lol

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6 hours ago, Creekimp13 said:

Very honestly....

I really can't speak on this one cause I've always had a pretty good sex life. Not too much has changed.

My back hurts less the day after. LOL. That's about it.

Same here. Hubby stays happy and I'm happier.

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Disclaimer: Not married. However, have a relationship. Sex has always been great and continues to be so--haven't really noticed a difference.

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