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Im a guy and I’m getting my rny on Jan 22, I scheduled 2 weeks off work and everyone at work is asking me why, what did you give for an excuse? These ppl can be ruthless and judgmental....

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I was worried about the same thing. I’ve told people I’m scheduled for a medical procedure, that I’m fine but it’s personal. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Sadly, there’s no way to avoid gossip. I’m scheduled for 1/17/18! Good luck to you.

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I'd think of some really outrageous thing to tell them...like....my unborn twin is causing me to go into kidney failure because it's teeth and hair are infected and a specialist from Germany is coming to remove it and study it. LOLOLOL

Yes, I have demented humor.

You could tell them you have a large benign anal tumor that is not cancer, but is painful and will require you to eat a special diet. No one makes fun of a butt tumor. And while there will be a little gossip, most people will just feel bad about it and try not to say anything.

You could be a hero and say you're donating a kidney to a cousin.

You can say whatever you want to say. Or say nothing at all:)

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I told most people I was having a lobotomy but a few times I got bored with that and said I was getting a boob job. Once people figured out that I was not going to provide any detailed information they backed off.

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I’m a teacher and they’re nosy as f! I told my friends, but other than that, I just didn’t tell them beforehand. I don’t really care if anybody knows. Tell them it’s none of their damn business! (Lol! I wish, but know you’re not really gonna say that!)


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Gallbladder surgery and hernia repair?

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I'd think of some really outrageous thing to tell them...like....my unborn twin is causing me to go into kidney failure because it's teeth and hair are infected and a specialist from Germany is coming to remove it and study it. LOLOLOL
Yes, I have demented humor.
You could tell them you have a large benign anal tumor that is not cancer, but is painful and will require you to eat a special diet. No one makes fun of a butt tumor. And while there will be a little gossip, most people will just feel bad about it and try not to say anything.
You could be a hero and say you're donating a kidney to a cousin.
You can say whatever you want to say. Or say nothing at all:)





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I’m a teacher and they’re nosy as f! I told my friends, but other than that, I just didn’t tell them beforehand. I don’t really care if anybody knows. Tell them it’s none of their damn business! (Lol! I wish, but know you’re not really gonna say that!)




I'm a teacher as well. Yes, they are extremely nosey. I got question after questions about my weight loss. I had been out a few months prior with another surgery. I just put it on complications of that surgery. Of course I didn't tell them what that surgery was either. So you know there were many rumors. I just sat back and laughed. I didn't think it was anyone's business so I still don't budge.

HW 330
SW 292
CW 185
GW below 200

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I just told people I was having weight loss surgery. Everyone I worked with was super supportive, especially since they realized I trusted them with this detail about my life. They appreciated that & showed it.

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So today I finally sat down with my immediate supervisor and told him "So I'm going to be out for surgery
..." and he responded with "oh female problems?" I was caught off guard and totally amused so I shurgged my shoulders and said "ok" lol . I know he isn't supposed to ask and I know I don't owe anyone any explanations and I honestly don't mind people knowing... I just thought it was funny that he assumed it was "female problems"... haha!

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So today I finally sat down with my immediate supervisor and told him "So I'm going to be out for surgery
..." and he responded with "oh female problems?" I was caught off guard and totally amused so I shurgged my shoulders and said "ok" lol . I know he isn't supposed to ask and I know I don't owe anyone any explanations and I honestly don't mind people knowing... I just thought it was funny that he assumed it was "female problems"... haha!

Haha! Female problems! Lol. I Plan to tell my supervisor tomorrow and was planning on not giving details but maybe I should say female problems!


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Ever since I was a kakat kitten I've wanted a tail, preferably a fluffy Persian one. Maybe I'll tell my questioners I'm going to have my rump,reduced so they can implant it better? I expect people to tell me I'm too old for surgery, it might kill me-nope,it's gonna help me live and live,longer. This world is too,funny to abandon now, want to see what happens,next. Power to this pussycat!

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