So nervous my surgery is tomorrow and I feel like not going through with it. I really don't have support. My husband says he's onboard butt when he gets upset he makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong[emoji20] . Anyone else feel that way?

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So nervous my surgery is tomorrow and I feel like not going through with it. I really don't have support. My husband says he's onboard butt when he gets upset he makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong[emoji20] . Anyone else feel that way?
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Stay focused. You're so close and you can get through it!

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Don't worry about him. Do what you know is right. Good luck.

Thank you all

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40 minutes ago, amsedano said:

So nervous my surgery is tomorrow and I feel like not going through with it. I really don't have support. My husband says he's onboard butt when he gets upset he makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong . Anyone else feel that way?

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surgery twin ... just remember you're doing this for you and only you ... Good luck and wishing you a speedy recovery

Thank you and good luck to you too [emoji3]

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You are doing what you need to do for yourself. If your husband doesn't support you, find others who will support you. Joining this forum is a big step in the right direction as we've all been there (or will be there). Good luck to you!

This will be the best decision you’ve ever made in your life. Stay focused. You will thank yourself 3 months from now

Thank you so much

Stay focused. Keep busy and ignore people that don't get it. Your husband is showing a negative personality trait, be careful.

You can do this. Good luck.

Your doing this for you and your health. Don't let his negativity ruin your choice. Praying for you and you're going to be just fine.

Let your husband be negative. You dont need his support. He is good for other things. Get the support you need somewhere else. You have us and this forum..there are facebook groups. My insurance required that I attended two meetings at a support group that my surgeon's office has. Glad they did because now I go on my own. Maybe your surgeon's office has one? If not maybe find one on your own?

If that fails you have us! PM me anytime.

Don't feel bad, and definitely go through with it. My husband isn't very supportive either but I told him the only thing I need to know is.... is he going to pick me up from the hospital? Goid luck

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I was sleeved yesterday . and I'm happy I did it. Thank you all for your kind words it really help with my decision. Doing good just a little pain where the incisions are but overall good.

Hw 240

Sw 211