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On 10/16/2014 at 2:34 AM, Lisa Mccarroll said:

plus it never hurts to spice things up a bit. you'd be surprised how a couple toys, massage oil, new lingerie, soft sheets, or some good old fashion porn can help rev the engines :) my BF and I will be visiting the Exxxotica Convention this year. :) sizzle sizzle!!!

This this this! Engaging the mind is the best way to kick-start your desire, even on a day by day basis. If you have a kink or two, explore some porn, or discover a new one. There are some fantastic sexual health toys on the market now for all genders, so doing a spot of shopping together is a fun way to build some excitement. If you're concerned about loose skin, buy a tight outfit that holds everything in but promises sexy times!

And if you don't have a plug-in electric vibrator, get one.

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I feel like for most, being post op and thinner makes libido soar, but for me I feel like it's waning. [emoji20] I used to be ready to go all the time! Now I feel like I don't have the same drive as before. I am not as self conscience so I don't think it's that. I have lost 40 lbs since dec 2 and am happy about that. Has anyone else experienced this? Does sex drive come back? I thought for sure I'd have even higher libido than before.
I will say that being tired due to long work hours and such minimal calories doesn't help things. Help!

I'm the total opposite I find myself wanting it more but my fiance of 12 yrs is having issues medically and can't seem to get in the mood and it's been this way now for a few yrs and I'm going crazy!!!!!!!!!

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