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I surely wouldn't hook up with someone I don't know, in a different country. Granted he may be a good looking doctor, still. Ladies please use your head please.

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"happy and confident in your smaller body"

Uh......post op smaller body? Sleeving or liposuction?

25 lbs down - was low BMI to start ... gastic sleeve in May

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So I can get my sleeve AND have sex with a young' date=' hot doctor?! Lol[/quote']

Lolol. Ummm!! Lol

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Anybody have any cocoa butter? I am trying to hold on to the credibility here but I'm being thinned out badly, want to avoid stretch marks. :blink:

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So you went to TJ, had surgery and four days later had consensual sex with your doctor? And you are upset at who?

ahh myself... and wanting to warn others not to be so foolish. he had all the lines and i fell hook line and sinker for them. looking back I was in a very vulnerable state and feel i was taken advantage of. other young single girls reading this might realise that hes using this to his advantge too.... and then i found out he has a long term girlfriend to top it off

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You are dealing with Latinos. Hot blooded. Sexy. Sensual.

Are you trying to tell me this was not in your post op expectations? :wub:

Come on. It is part of the package. For ALL of us.

Eet ees why vee go to Mexico (said in my best Latino accent).

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ahh myself... and wanting to warn others not to be so foolish. he had all the lines and i fell hook line and sinker for them. looking back I was in a very vulnerable state and feel i was taken advantage of. other young single girls reading this might realise that hes using this to his advantge too.... and then i found out he has a long term girlfriend to top it off

I'm not judging you, you are an adult and free to do the nasty with anyone you choose. That said, I'm sure there are very few people that are interested in having sex 4 days post op, much less in a foreign country with a total stranger.

Please, expose the cad that seduced you! If this happened, it is unethical and should be known. Otherwise, I must say it smells like bull doodles to me.

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Told ya they'd call ya a troll! :P

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What possible benefit can I get f5rom "making up" this story. I havnt used my real name on here, I havnt put up a photo, what possible benefit would i get. I do feel under different curcumstances I would have made better decisions, but at the time I told things I hadnt heard in a while and fell for his charms. Turns out THAT was bull doodles.

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