Hi there,
I really enjoyed reading everyone's responses, excellent points indeed. I am just 8 days out post-op and got some flak, ( family ) because I "Only" had 60 lbs to loose. Well for me, it might has well been a couple of hundred, because that is how I felt. Miserable. I prayed about it, and different people came into my life along the way. And I feel like God gave me the right direction through them, total strangers. Sometimes the people who are closest to us, friends, family, co-worker's, and they mean well granted, but think they know what the right thing is for us. However, they don't walk in your shoes and they can't tell you what your relationship and faith with The Lord should be. I say if you continue to pray about it , and everything is a green light, do it. If it is not meant to be, God will let you know, with a roadblock of some kind. You will know the right thing to do. Just keep your heart with Jesus, he left us his Holy Spirit to guide us. Thank you for sharing and your honesty.