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But it was a one night stand...any guy even in america who picks you up at a bar or whatever can have a long term gf...there's no way to know someone enough in a few days to know them. Im guessing he thought you understood it was a fling...I'm sorry if you felt used though.

It went on for 4/5 weeks ... At first ya - I was thinking one night fling cool ... But then he starting with all the lines ... Skype etc ... Then he found his next victim ... And has turned into a cold harted a hole ... I was just a bit of fun that walked in the door - not professional I don't think ... I am taking responsibly for it too - just don't want other woman to get hurt

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I guess what gets confusing is when a man acts like they want to be with you sending mixed signals. If its just a fling then act like its just a fling. Don't bring flowers and romance into it if you just want a one nighter

Hes in a different country wouldnt you assume it is just a fling...or the fact that it wasnt a date it was just in the hotel room. I know if I slept with someone within 4 days of knowing them it would be a fling

Edit: I didn't see the one you posted about it going on for weeks...I assumed you met him and first spoke to him that week

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It went on for 4/5 weeks ... At first ya - I was thinking one night fling cool ... But then he starting with all the lines ... Skype etc ... Then he found his next victim ... And has turned into a cold harted a hole ... I was just a bit of fun that walked in the door - not professional I don't think ... I am taking responsibly for it too - just don't want other woman to get hurt

Oh ok nvmd then...u should report him

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Oh ok nvmd then...u should report him

And it didn't start off in the hotel room .. We went on a "date" ... I'm more trying to help other woman then ruin things for him by doing this ... I'm sure karma will sort him out

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I wasn't going to post because people could put two and two together and figure out who you're posting about, but they probably will anyway! I don't know that it's a horrible thing though honestly, as it doesn't seem to be the first or last time he's done this with a patient. I was there and her story is actually true. INSANE, but true (I was in Mexico at the same time and have seen the "date night" pictures, and have seen emails). Like I've told you privately though, I think his company would like to know this is going on and if you really want to prevent other women from believing that he wants a relationship with them, that's the way to stop it. This may get his attention, but that's not what you say you want. If you really want to keep women from feeling used like this, his company needs to know. If they haven't figured it out already from this thread!

Medical Tourism already has an unfair stigma attached to it. His behavior won't make that any better!!

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Lol thanks my friend .. I feel he thinks he's invincible and can do what he wants to whomever he wants ... He has a sense of power over us - we trust him and he flat out abused it ... Love u K x

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If this is Gods honest truth... This is unethical in any country and since you're warning mostly Americans it's only right to expose his identity and let people decide on their own. Who gives a rats ass about whether he'll get mad...

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That's just why I'm not naming the dr ... I knew what I was getting myself into postin this - I don't want him to keep getting away with it ... He will be reading this - he loves reading about himself on here - well maybe not this post lol

As long as no one names him, he will keep getting away with it. Do you know his name?

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As long as no one names him' date=' he will keep getting away with it. Do you know his name?[/quote']

Lol yes ... I did know him that well to catch his name. He will read this and hopefully stop his **** .. I might email the company and they can decide what to do...

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If this is Gods honest truth... This is unethical in any country and since you're warning mostly Americans it's only right to expose his identity and let people decide on their own. Who gives a rats ass about whether he'll get mad...

It's true... And I'm leaning the same way only because things can only be changed and improved if there are complaints about it.

She is not the first for this Dr. And I'm sure she won't be the last...

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I wasn't going to post because people could put two and two together and figure out who you're posting about, but they probably will anyway! I don't know that it's a horrible thing though honestly, as it doesn't seem to be the first or last time he's done this with a patient. I was there and her story is actually true. INSANE, but true (I was in Mexico at the same time and have seen the "date night" pictures, and have seen emails). Like I've told you privately though, I think his company would like to know this is going on and if you really want to prevent other women from believing that he wants a relationship with them, that's the way to stop it. This may get his attention, but that's not what you say you want. If you really want to keep women from feeling used like this, his company needs to know. If they haven't figured it out already from this thread!

Medical Tourism already has an unfair stigma attached to it. His behavior won't make that any better!!

This.

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This is a help and support forum and it's a disservice not to post an unethical surgeon.. Regardless of what country the slime ball is practicing in.

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