I just threw a napkin at my husband :(

April 28, 201313 yr

So I had a pretty good day I went to the farmers market and bought lots of tidbits for a casual dinner tonight for the husband and kids. It's hot so I made a big platter with two different goat cheeses, smoked salmon, sun dried persimmons, French baguette slices, and orange slices. I had some too but not a lot.. Well fast forward an hour or so and they all want to eat again... I'm upstairs because they are playing Xbox and I dislike it. I'm at the point of the evening when the cravings get the worst and I'm battling with myself not to sneak downstairs and eat something bad.. They (husband and teen daughter) send the boy (who is 11 and the charmer) up to ask "please can you come down and make pork buns because we are hungry again" 0_o I really didn't want to face the kitchen again because I'm weak willed. so my son says "you know what mom I'll try and steam them myself" He runs down and tries but needs help so the evil video playing ones yell up that he's going to burn the house down. I ended up going and doing it myself (with his help) and opened the cupboard several times wanting something sweet, but I just looked and closed it up again. But I'm on edge! I'm serving up the buns and one breaks open so it not "perfect" looking anymore, I handed it to my husband and I swear he looks at me like "oh thanks" Well ladies and gentlemen, that's all it took! I threw the napkin at his face and I might of said something like f**k you... Ok I did!!! OMG I'm a mess!

I must say my husband is a great man who does a lot to make my life easy ( works so I can stay home, grocery shops etc) So he's not an ass (usually)

By the way they are downstairs laughing,playing and eating..

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April 30, 201313 yr

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You inspired me to do the same. I put on my 22s and walked in the living room like nothing was going on. My husband was like what the hell are you wearing?!? He never saw me that big! It was definitely a reality check for him haha! I'm a 16 now.

Girl you better put those back on and take a picture!

Isn't that funny my husband was the same (I think I was too) he couldn't believe I wore those because he just didn't see it as that big then.

It's hard, I mean it only hit me sometimes just how large I was then, and when it did it was devastating. So now I think it's the same thing, it doesn't hit me that often how much I've lost, so it's easy daily, just to get caught up with the numbers on the scale and how slowly they move sometimes..

Anyway I'm rambling, I hope you get what I mean:) I'm glad we dug those old pants out!

Funny how a napkin and a chocolate egg ended with these insights

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April 30, 201313 yr

I tend to wear my too big clothes and not notice it until my kids ask me if I'm "trying to be a gangsta"

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April 30, 201313 yr

I tend to wear my too big clothes and not notice it until my kids ask me if I'm "trying to be a gangsta"

This cracked me up! I've been wearing my 20s since surgery and just put on a pair of 18s...my fiance asked me when I got waist. I didn't realize how frumpy I looked in my loose clothes lol

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June 4, 201313 yr

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