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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

I feel for you. Just ignore it and hold your head high. They are jealous.

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Tks @@bellabloom I know it's jealousy but it kills me I don't even dress sleezy... or wear make up at work 2 warrant such high school behavior I work for the government for Petes sake when do we grow up .... I've never ever flirted with a soul I work with on my mom's grave like wow hate me 4 being healthy? So curious if I'm dealing alone??

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Tks @@bellabloom I know it's jealousy but it kills me I don't even dress sleezy... or wear make up at work 2 warrant such high school behavior I work for the government for Petes sake when do we grow up .... I've never ever flirted with a soul I work with on my mom's grave like wow hate me 4 being healthy? So curious if I'm dealing alone??

Your not alone. My best friend had surgery and a bunch of her friends dropped her. It happens. People are petty.

Be happy for the hard work your doing. Only people who have had this surgery understand how hard it is and how much work it entails. Short term and long term. Ignore it and after awhile it will pass. Just stay professional and don't share too much personal information. Keep your chin up and surround yourself with supportive people

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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

So sorry this is happening to you! Unfortunately, it is hard esp for women sometimes to be happy for someone else. This is so much more about them and their insecurities than it is about you. I have never understood this! Even at my heaviest of 350+ pounds, I was still confident in myself to acknowledge beautiful women. Jealousy is ugly! Luckily I own my own business and have not had any issues since dropping the weight. I agree with the other posters, you have to just ignore it. If you let it beat you down or allow it to cause a reaction, they got what they wanted out of you. Its like we tell our kids, have to ignore ignorant people. This journey is by no means easy! So you deserve to be happy! Don't let these immature women still your joy. They are not your Maker and their judgments mean nothing. Keep doing you girl!

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Thanks guys

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Sleeved 5/5/15

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sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Holy cow! 84 pounds in 3 months!!!! That's amazing!

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Sleeved 5/5/15

attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1439932168.894148.jpg

sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Holy cow! 84 pounds in 3 months!!!! That's amazing!

Omg how?????? That's amazing what?

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My doctor says the same thing .. Very happy with my results ????

May I ask what you eat? Month 1-3 like what's your normal day like?

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I drink Water when I get up then either a slice of bacon or a belvita biscuit then I have a Protein Shake then for lunch I eat usually tuna with light mayo. then around 2 I have a snack usually peanuts or fruit of some sort. Around 6 before dinner I have more Protein usually a little of a shake for example. Then dinner I have grilled chicken or shrimp. I usually eat dinner at 730 and I finish off with a sugar free Popsicle around 9pm.. That is what I am at now month 1 and 2 were mostly just Protein Shakes and tuna.. Oh and I drink 4oz of apple juice a day.. Helps with my horrible acid reflux.. I also ride my bike 1 hour 3 times a week and have a boflex to work out on.. Everyone is different and this seems to be working for me. ????

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Sleeved 5/5/15

attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1439932168.894148.jpg

sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Damn woman!! YOU ARE KILLING IT!

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You look amazing!! Don't let stalls get ya down cause they will come!! Just keep doing what your doing!

Don't you feel incredible!?!?

It's the freakin best feeling...

To move and start to feel FIT!!

So happy for you!! ????????????????????????

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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