Omg when my bf and can have sex I think it crazed frenzy! No sex for three more weeks!:-(

So now that you aren't "fat" anymore' date=' are u more confident sexually? I ask because sometimes it is all in our mind and not in our bodies.[/quote']

I am still fat....I said that in one of my earlier posts. 60 Pds from goal weight but as I stated earlier too I have menstrual issues really bad. Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again!

Rybecca' date=' I understand what you meant. Ignore the drama [/quote']

Thank u!!!

We had sex yesterday it was amazing found a new position too!

Wtg!!!! If there is a will there is a way!! U go girl!!!

Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again!

I'm hoping my sex drive do come back too. Glad things were good when you were thin. For me is different, even when I was thin, I was extremely self conscious. :/

I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding, do you know why it happened?

I love new positions

If you dont mind me beening in here what are some new positions that people are trying

I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding' date=' do you know why it happened?[/quote']

Had some issues about two years ago had an ablasion done instead of husterectomy. But now it's time :-(. 11 Pads today in about 4 hours. Uggh!!

OMG.. Run girl! LOL.. Just messing!

12 inch Coke can? My ex was like that and at 324lbs' date=' it was VERY uncomfortable and I never enjoyed him. On top of that, latex irritates me and I guess because he was so big, it was even worse!! Good luck with that. Try some lubes if you haven't already.[/quote']

I have just the opposite problem. My hubby is not well endowed, and after having 5 children I'm definitely not a virgin, so sex is rather blah and positions are limited. I'm hoping weight loss will allow better access at the least. Kegels only do so much, but I keep them up anyway. I would much rather be dealing with a too big issue though!

Its not always about size its about how he rocks your world

If you dont mind me beening in here what are some new positions that people are trying

My bf and I were able to have sex standing up!

My bf and I were able to have sex standing up!

Nice ive never tried that before congrats to you

Thank you;-)

I'm pre-op and I feel the same way. Been single since the golden years. LOL. Hopefully one day....

I have only been with my bf for 23 months. Before him I was alone for 12 years! I have a friend who pulled me out of my shell and got me on a dating website and it just went from there!

My bf is amazing! He is part of why I have confidence! He treats me like me and and has never told asked me to lose weight! We are both happy because as much as he liked holding in the past sometimes it was uncomfortable for him but now its getting better and the sex is too! My legs would cramp or we would try something and it didn't work so we got frustrated and then stuck in a rut! But we have worked through it and moved past it!