I had my surgery on 11/28 and came home 12/1. I am unable to pick up my lil one who is only 13months and its breaking my heart. Is anyone else going thru the same thing? I was originally banded in 2009 and went from band to sleeve and feeling great, except for my baby.

I was told ten pounds for six weeks, then had a second surgery to repair a leak at five weeks and had to start the six weeks all over again. I'm shocked a doctor would have no lifting restrictions. Frankly that's putting a patient at risk. It's very easy to lift too much and get a leak early out.

Everyone's going to be told something different. My surgeon told me that my body is so used to picking her up that there was no restriction with her. She's was 12 months and 22 lbs, I still took it easy and didn't just hold her all the time. I would pick her up when she wanted a hug and kiss and put her back down. She really didn't understand obviously. I'd do what you feel comfortable with, if you trust ur surgeon listen to him, if you're dying to just hug your baby, take it slow and listen to your bodys cues. Good luck! Xx

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