I was sleeved on October 22 of this year. While lying in bed the night before my surgery, my husband tells me that he wants to leave me. I am devastated. I am already stressing about my surgery and he brings this up. My husband never complained about my weight as I was heavy when we married. Everyone has told me that he was just filling insecure about me losing weight after surgery. He left me on Tuesday, November 27. I am speechless and heartbroken. We would have been married 21 years on December 28.

Our upcoming anniversary makes matters even worse. I feel betrayed and afraid. I need all the prayers that I can get. I only have a couple of friends that I can cry to but neither of them attend church or have much experience with prayer and faith. I love my husband and I want him to return to me. I know that is has only been a few days but he has made some pretty drastic decisions this week and told me today that he will not come back and does not want to be married any more. The only way that he is going to return is for God to intervene. The thought of being alone and starting a life without him terrifies me. I need for all of my christian brothers and sisters to stand in faith with me. I need strength through all of this as I am not eating or taking my vitamins or supplements so I am pretty drained both physically and mentally.

I will be agreeing in prayer that Gods will be done in your marriage. btw- please eat and take your vitamins and supplements!

IMO he is a scumbag for putting you through this at a time when you need him most. You are the one that is important here and we will all support you. Sending you a hug and prayers!

Kentucky Girl....are you ok? I said a prayer for you. I know this thread is old...but I hope you are well now. Blessings!

I'm praying God will open his eyes and heart! I'm sorry for your hurt! I'm at praying God will soften him and send him home! Jesus loves us so much and hurts when you hurt! Give it all to Him and have faith!