So to day was getting ready for work, and pulled out a pair of jeans, thinking these are not going to fit. Holding my breath in goes one leg then the other and up they went...and where loose in the thighs and waist!!..so happy at 645 this morning I call my boyfriend of 3 yrs to tell him, he said good job babe, but I don't think I can handle this weight lost thing...I need time....WTH!!

The heck is wrong with him?! That makes no sense. He should be happy that you're doing so well, and after 3 years? Seriously?

ROFL at your bf... that is a WTH moment??? Everyone changes with your weight loss, be patient with him. He is after all just a guy (lol). Congrats on your success! May it only continue!

Thanks ladies I have gone from a 24 to an 18 loose jean I might add...he says I'm different...well Hell yeah I'm happy...and too top it off I did this partly for him because he lives an active life and has younger kids..it hurts but you know I have to start living for me now!!

Wow! If he can't handle the new and improved happier you, then he doesn't deserve you! Hope he comes around and realizes that.

My bf refused to discuss anything about the surgery when I was pre-op, then the relationship fell to pieces after. I broke up with him, and told him I couldn't handle it. Since then, we're dating again, and he is really trying. He still doesn't mention the surgery or my weightloss, though. Sometimes men are like little boys, once he realizes the "new" you is like a new toy, he'll come around to see what kind of new things you can do, lol.

He's afraid I'm going to leave him when I'm smaller...he's a big guy nut I don't care what he looks like is he is happy the way he is so am I love him to pieces...