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I Had To Cancel My Surgery For Tomorrow :-(

My Brother passed away this afternoon after a boating accident yesterday, i have had a horrible weekend :-( i had to cancel my surgery for tomorrow i just cant do it tomorrow my kids and nephew need me here! I feel so guilty and cant believe i have waited so long to have this done and now i cant!!! Hopefully i can have it done next week or the week after!

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  • shangefan
    shangefan

    I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have done what was necessary for you and your family. I am sure you won't have a problem getting it rescheduled considering the circumstances Take good c

  • Finding MeMe
    Finding MeMe

    Family comes first always!!!! You can always reschedule so take the time to morn your brother and focus on yourself another day. Sorry for your loss, I sympathize with you and your family during this

  • sleeve 4 me
    sleeve 4 me

    I am sooooo sorry for your loss...praying peace and comfort for you. Hugs.

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Thank you guys, sending hugs your way too! I am ok i think i am numb it hasnt really hit me yet hasnt had time too! I am so glad i can turn to this site and have so many friends that truly care and understand!

I am so sorry for your loss. Surgery will happen when the time is right. Take time to mourn your loss and take care of yourself.

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So sorry for your loss!! I hope you're able to get through this trying time & reschedule your surgery!

I'm so sorry for you loss.

Family comes first always!!!! You can always reschedule so take the time to morn your brother and focus on yourself another day. Sorry for your loss, I sympathize with you and your family during this difficult time.

so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.

So sorry about this tragedy :(

I am sure your surgeon will be understanding and may help get you in when the time is right.

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family healing energy.

I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. My prayers go out to you. You will be able to have your surgery soon I am sure.

so sorry for your loss. :(

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what your going through. When the time is right you can reshedule. He would want you to do it for yourself. Thoughts and prayers coming your way <3

So sorry about the loss of your brother. We are all here for you . Praying for you and your family.

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