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My Brother passed away this afternoon after a boating accident yesterday, i have had a horrible weekend :-( i had to cancel my surgery for tomorrow i just cant do it tomorrow my kids and nephew need me here! I feel so guilty and cant believe i have waited so long to have this done and now i cant!!! Hopefully i can have it done next week or the week after!

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I am sooooo sorry for your loss...praying peace and comfort for you. Hugs.

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I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have done what was necessary for you and your family. I am sure you won't have a problem getting it rescheduled considering the circumstances

Take good care.

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Thank you guys, sending hugs your way too! I am ok i think i am numb it hasnt really hit me yet hasnt had time too! I am so glad i can turn to this site and have so many friends that truly care and understand!

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I am so sorry for your loss. Surgery will happen when the time is right. Take time to mourn your loss and take care of yourself.

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So sorry for your loss!! I hope you're able to get through this trying time & reschedule your surgery!

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I'm so sorry for you loss.

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Family comes first always!!!! You can always reschedule so take the time to morn your brother and focus on yourself another day. Sorry for your loss, I sympathize with you and your family during this difficult time.

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so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.

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So sorry about this tragedy :(

I am sure your surgeon will be understanding and may help get you in when the time is right.

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I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family healing energy.

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I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. My prayers go out to you. You will be able to have your surgery soon I am sure.

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so sorry for your loss. :(

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what your going through. When the time is right you can reshedule. He would want you to do it for yourself. Thoughts and prayers coming your way <3

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