Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

My Story So Far.....pre Op



Recommended Posts

My name is Laura. I am from Huntsville Alabama. I grew up thin and active but when I got married I gained a lot of weight!! I was my highest ever when I got pregnant at 354. Thankfully I got pregnant very easily and had an easy pregnancy and delivery. I actually lost weight while pregnant!! So now I am 324. My son is six months old and I want to be a healthy fun Mom. I dont want to pass on bad eating habits to my son. So I went to Dr. Mailapurs seminar on Tuesday and his support group on Wednesday. My appointment with him is next Tuesday. I went to the seminar wanting the band but walked away thinking the sleeve. After research on the band it seems like it is not very effective and lots of bother with fills ect. I really dont want the bypass. I do not Like the whole rerouting of things aspect of it and malabsorption. Also I am a self pay so thankfully I do not have to wait on approval from insurance.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was self pay too, so didn't have to do a lot of the things prior to surgery so from my consult to surgery it was only a matter of weeks.

I saw a few surgeons and know people that went to Mexico for a third of what I paid. Even tho I know I paid more than anyone I know, I felt my surgeon and the location to my home was right for me. That's what was most important to me.

The first week I refer to as hell week. I learned a few things after surgery I didn't know and was mostly prepared otherwise.

I'm almost ten weeks out and haven't lost a lot get. It's been very very slow for me. I'm at -18 but I'm truly happy with how much better I feel everyday. I started at 244 so if u weigh more you'll lose faster to start. So don't at all gauge by my loss.

The gas and burps were and still are a huge part of this. Walk walk walk!!!! Have someone rub your back in circles to help u burp. Like u would with a baby!

Drink LOTS of water! I'm a dasani Water addict cause it the only one I can drink room temp. Cold Water is hard to handle for about two weeks. After a few weeks switch to smart water for the electrolytes it offers..

I pre bought all my Vitamins per my dr's advice, through the beariatrics online site, and I was so sick taking them all. After week 4 my doc gave me a B12 shot and took me off the Vitamins. Said wait another month then start again but instead of all the individuals 3 times a day take my b12 shot monthly and buy the Vitamin crystals instead. They're a package like crystal light u pore in water twice a day. I will start those soon.

Good luck and keep talking to people here. It's an amazing resource.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just moved from Huntsville a few years ago. My last child who is 14 now, was born there. I lived there for 12 years. (Madison area). Welcome! I was self pay also here in San Antonio. I went from seminar to surgery in 9 days! I went to a saturday seminar, made my appt on Monday and then had surgery the following Monday! I had a one week liquid preop diet, lost 9 pounds, and now I am 8 months out and 80 pounds down! It really works and after the first couple of weeks, it will be smooth sailing. It is hell week during preop and getting used to sipping such small amounts but that will pass. You will lose and plateau, in a pattern, over and over. Dont worry if you didnt lose what you thought right off the bat. Your body has to adjust and you have to be pateint! Just remember that when you are in a stall. It will pass! Good luck to you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My name is Laura. I am from Huntsville Alabama. I grew up thin and active but when I got married I gained a lot of weight!! I was my highest ever when I got pregnant at 354. Thankfully I got pregnant very easily and had an easy pregnancy and delivery. I actually lost weight while pregnant!! So now I am 324. My son is six months old and I want to be a healthy fun Mom. I dont want to pass on bad eating habits to my son. So I went to Dr. Mailapurs seminar on Tuesday and his support group on Wednesday. My appointment with him is next Tuesday. I went to the seminar wanting the band but walked away thinking the sleeve. After research on the band it seems like it is not very effective and lots of bother with fills ect. I really dont want the bypass. I do not Like the whole rerouting of things aspect of it and malabsorption. Also I am a self pay so thankfully I do not have to wait on approval from insurance.

Laura Dr. Mailapur was my surgeon. His staff is excellent and they will work with you every step of the way. I am so glad I went to him. I was sleeved 4/2. If you got any questions just let me know. Good Luck!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Onedayatatime365

      Looking to connect with others who are also on the journey of better health. Post-Op Gastric Sleeve (4/11/24).
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×