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I am new to this site, can not believe I have not been here yet but I am planning to visit often now! I am scheduled for my Sleeve on 4/23 at 5:30 AM! I'm scared. I'm scared about the anesthesia and not waking up (I'm a single mom) and I'm afraid that I can't do it. After my morning visit with our nutritionist, I thought to myself, "OMG, can I even do this? Can I really not eat carbs forever? Can I really exist on liquids alone?" I'm really nervous. I've been on the pre-op diet for one week and after day 3 I was so tired, fatigued and had such a hard time thinking I had to go home from work. After day three, and talking to my doctor, I increased my Protein Shakes but then also ate regular food toward the end of the week. I don't have a lot of support at all so I'm really panicing at the moment!

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Tomorrow morning April 16th is mine. I'm nervous but excited at the same time....made it through the 2 weeks pre op diet and got some new protien powder that I can tolerate and I'm ready to go. What really bothers me is the last minute phone calls and suggestions from family and friends telling me not to do the surgery. I've researched and know this is what I want and hope they will realize it is for the best in the long run. :D

I am glad that others have this problem too. I don't have a lot of support for the surgery. My parents believe that diet and exercises is all I need and I'm just lazy. I've spent years on Jenny Craig (lost a lot of weight and gained it back), some time on Weight Watchers, I'm a stressed out single mom and nothing else has worked. I've spent 9 months in the preparations required by my insurance, but now I am freaking out. And without support, I'm super freaking out! I have a coworker or two that is supportive but they won't be with me while I'm out on leave. My boyfriend and his family are super supportive though, and that's nice. Maybe it'll spur them on to get healthier too! :)

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I am new to this site, can not believe I have not been here yet but I am planning to visit often now! I am scheduled for my Sleeve on 4/23 at 5:30 AM! I'm scared. I'm scared about the anesthesia and not waking up (I'm a single mom) and I'm afraid that I can't do it. After my morning visit with our nutritionist, I thought to myself, "OMG, can I even do this? Can I really not eat carbs forever? Can I really exist on liquids alone?" I'm really nervous. I've been on the pre-op diet for one week and after day 3 I was so tired, fatigued and had such a hard time thinking I had to go home from work. After day three, and talking to my doctor, I increased my Protein shakes but then also ate regular food toward the end of the week. I don't have a lot of support at all so I'm really panicing at the moment!

You will do well. You are not lazy.

I am having surgery on the 23rd also. Until yesterday, I was afraid, too. I am having the surgery because of the health problems I will have if I don't. I concentrated on the health benefits of the surgery and let the rest of it go. Today I am not afraid.

I found this to be a good place to get the support I need.

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you will do fine and we will be your moral/emtional support <3 you are doing what is right for you, barely any of my family know I am doing this only a select few for this very reason ....It will all be ok

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My husband is supportive up to this point but now he acts like i may never feed him again he is eating like a horse and says he is scared for me after surgery because im hungry now but i told him ive got nothing curbing my appetite right now he just doesnt get it but i hope he will soon thanks and good luck were so close

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All right people. Today is my turn. My surgery is today. Getting ready to head to the hospital. Super nervous

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Ok, I'm here. IV started, blood tests done, xrays done, waiting for surgery. I'm getting really hungry and still have the nervous butterflies!!! I can't believe I'm here. I really can't. It happened so fast!

Mexico is so beautiful to wake up to in the morning. From my 3rd floor hospital room I have a Juarez City Mountain view. Gorgeous! It's sunny and about 71+ today.

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Tomorrow is the big day! I got a call from the hospital to be there at 530 in the morning!!!!

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So I was at the hospital all day, and they canceled my surgery because of equipment issues, now its postponed until Friday

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So I was at the hospital all day, and they canceled my surgery because of equipment issues, now its postponed until Friday

Wow... thats crazyy.. Well at least i'll be goin in the same day so you won't be alone friday... :D

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I can't sleep it is three am April 23 is my date but every minute between now and then is booked. I am nervous about stupid stuff like pain and squishy body after I wish I could sleep but all i can do is lay here listening to him snore and wonder if the last year of work I was crazy and now I am sane this is stupid I told my self last month if I made it this far I wouldn't let nervous get the best of me I have spent a year jumping for my insurance company I know it's last minute jitters but if I can't sleep Thursday what will I do on Sunday night

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I can't sleep it is three am April 23 is my date but every minute between now and then is booked. I am nervous about stupid stuff like pain and squishy body after I wish I could sleep but all i can do is lay here listening to him snore and wonder if the last year of work I was crazy and now I am sane this is stupid I told my self last month if I made it this far I wouldn't let nervous get the best of me I have spent a year jumping for my insurance company I know it's last minute jitters but if I can't sleep Thursday what will I do on Sunday night

Same here. I've been going over everything twice and washing everything in my house (going to mx for a week) so my husband and 11-year old will be prepared while I'm gone. Worried though... I cheated on my preop diet last night. Had a lean meal but should only be on liquids and Protein shakes. Hope I didn't sabatage myself! So stressful when your whole family can eat and you can't. Woke up crying about 4am and haven't been able to go back to sleep because of a headache now! I can't fall apart now! Apparently the nervousness has hit me!!! Did I mess up bad??!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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