OK, people. I know we are all used to having me be the fattest one in the group, but times have changed and you HAVE TO GET OVER IT!!!

For those of you who now outweigh me, Yes, I do weigh less than you now. And I'm taller than you so my BMI is lower, but we won't talk about that. Please pull your face back into a look that approaches normalcy. I promise I will never bring up my weight or yours. I did this for my health, not so I could lord it over those who are still struggling with weight. I realize you have spent years patting yourself on the back because you are not as big as me, but those days are past. Pull up your big person panties and move on.

And for many others, yes, my goal weight is less than what you currently weigh. No, I will not be anorexic at a healthy BMI of 22. Please don't compulsively ask how much I now weigh each time you see me and then calculate how much I have to lose before I weigh less than you. Please see the notes above for how I prefer you to handle this brave new world.

Best wishes,

Lynda

Love Love Love this......I feel that way at the gym....I have heard ppl talking about the "fad" diet I went on ( i just found out last week I am doing a fasting 3 days a week' date='in order to Lose my weight)....HaHa, guess that was News to me..LOL, I just say Keep on Talking Cause I am gonna Lose MORE!!![/quote']

Lmbo,,,,too funny!!!

Wow some people have shallow friends. This blows my mind.

Mistysj - that bonding over dieting and self-loathing has always disturbed me, and I've never understood it.