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Well guys, it's OFFICIAL!!! I'm getting my surgery next Monday, Nov. 2nd!! I'm so excited. I can't believe it. I'm getting so nervous too, and feeling a little overwhelmed at all the changes I have to make. I feel like I don't even know where to begin. Any advice, suggestions, encouragment??

Thanks, guys :biggrin0:)

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Well guys, it's OFFICIAL!!! I'm getting my surgery next Monday, Nov. 2nd!! I'm so excited. I can't believe it. I'm getting so nervous too, and feeling a little overwhelmed at all the changes I have to make. I feel like I don't even know where to begin. Any advice, suggestions, encouragment??

Thanks, guys :biggrin0:)

Congrats Ruby. Suggestions - read others' posts where they have shared. Also, if you're wondering what to take to the hospital, read the thread on Dr. Aceves' information - even if Dr. A isn't doing your surgery, it's a good list and gives you ideas on what to take with you. It also has a good post-op diet if your doctor doesn't give you one (although I am sure he will). Hang in there and we'll look forward to hearing about your journey onto the losing side.

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Congrats on your date. You will do fine with your surgery. just keep reading post and asking questions. Looking forward to hearing about your journey.

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Well guys, it's OFFICIAL!!! I'm getting my surgery next Monday, Nov. 2nd!! I'm so excited. I can't believe it. I'm getting so nervous too, and feeling a little overwhelmed at all the changes I have to make. I feel like I don't even know where to begin. Any advice, suggestions, encouragment??

Thanks, guys :001_tongue:)

Hello RubyTuesday,

I am so happy that you are having your surgery soon. I understand how you must feel, I have been more nervous, excited, and worrying about if I will do ok with all the changes that will take place soon if I get approved for the sleeve. I will find out hopefully this week or the first of next week. The closer I get the more I experience all these new feelings and thoughts racing through my mind. I am finding it more difficult to get regular sleep. I wonder at times if I am driving my family nuts with my constantly bringing the subject up and I know they can tell I am more excited. I am sure if you keep looking on here you will find just what will help you out at the time you need it the most. Here lately I get on this forum every night and sometimes more than once a day. I wish you all the best!!

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How very exciting! I think all I can really say about advice is be happy and get ready for the big change! Don't worry too much (thats easier said then done) I was told that with the sleeve your changes aren't too hard to do, just think about what your doing and the rest will come to you. . . best of luck! You'll do just fine!

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Thanks for all the support :confused1:) I'm two days away now and just trying to get everything together. Keep me in your prayers! Monday is the big day.

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Well guys, it's OFFICIAL!!! I'm getting my surgery next Monday, Nov. 2nd!! I'm so excited. I can't believe it. I'm getting so nervous too, and feeling a little overwhelmed at all the changes I have to make. I feel like I don't even know where to begin. Any advice, suggestions, encouragment??

Thanks, guys :confused1:)

I know the feeling Ruby, I am in the same boat or was....I HAD a surgery date Nov. 3rd...and my blood pressure has brought everything to a screeching halt. I have to get it under control before

I get re-scheduled. I'm really disapointed....anyway

Thinking about the life changes, especially when surgery is so close gets overwhelming. Just make a priority list...

1. gown, robe, no slip shoes, pillow

2. chewable vitimans, b-12, Calcium citrate

3. Protein powder, sugar free pudding, Jello, crystal light

chicken broth, etc.

4. stock you pantry and fridge with things you eat.

This is what I am doing to prepare.

read these blogs daily and you'll learn all you need to know.

It's tough to think about the food you will not be able to have anymore, it is hard for me, but you have to focus on the prize.

A Brand NEW BODY. I chance to start over, to make things right

permanently. Those of us that are fortunate enough to have the surgery are truely blessed. Forget about the food that gave us

the body we have now. And that will keep you focused.

I hope this helps

JudyJudyJudy

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Judy, you will not miss any foods. the cravings go away too! I am only 16 days post and it just dawned on me I have NO craving for sugar. This being Halloween, I am so amazed. I am a sugar freak. Strike that, WAS a sugar freak. It just happens.

RubyTuesday, I am so happy for you. You are about to start a great journey. Enjoy this trip, it will last a life time. I will keep you in my prayers on monday. Calling all Angels, fly with Ruby and her care givers on Monday that they all be safe and well.

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Good thoughts and prayers will be with you Ruby. Can't wait to read about you success!

Hugs,

JoAnne

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Thanks all. I'll update when I get out of the hospital!!

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Ruby - Thinking of you tomorrow. Can't wait to hear how well it all went!!

Anna

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