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How soon can you have sex after having the band put on ? Well I guess it is different for everyone but I was just curious, I know this is a little out there , i'm really not a freak, it's a part of life, but I was just wondering !

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Just as soon as you feel up to it... if that means 2 days after surgery... you go girl :)

At least those are my surgeons directions....... other Dr's may differ.

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:) Lol thank you !

Just as soon as you feel up to it... if that means 2 days after surgery... you go girl :)

At least those are my surgeons directions....... other Dr's may differ.

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you are not a freak.....don't worry. i wondered the same thing. the best answer i can give you is whenever you are comfortable enough to have sex. be careful. go slow. stop if it hurts. that's what worked for me!

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What's sex?

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Ok I cannot explain what sex is, you guys are going to have to pick up the phone and call your parents, siblings, or bestfriends so they can tell u about the birds and the bee's ! I'm sorry I just can't explain that and I wanna believe yall are joking, but if not i'm sorry !

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My surgeon's directions were the same as Alexra's. If I remember correctly, we waited for 3-4 days. Just make sure you hold the palm of your hand over your port site while in the missionary position. You'll understand why if you don't. :biggrin1:

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I wanna believe yall are joking, but if not i'm sorry !
I've been married over 8 years, if I don't know what sex is yet, then DH is a much more patient man than I give him credit for! :D

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The port incision (at least mine) is about 2.5" long. It is the one that hurts. I barely noticed the others. It twinges if you shift or bend. A twinge isn't nearly as fun as it sounds.

Putting pressure on it is a great help. We used a pillow between in missionary, I was OK on my knees or side after 7 days. Back to FULL activity a month later. winks

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My dr didn't give specific directions, other than "when you're comfortable". I think we waited about a week. I'm a little over 2 months out now and still feel a bit of discomfort -- not pain -- in the missionary position. Port just feels weird and I have to press on it.

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Seems like someone got to the question before me. That was one of the first questions I was asked, how long we needed to wait?:think I guess they figured better get it while I can.:help:

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