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Sex After Lap-Band Surgery

I'm 3 weeks Post-Op is it to soon?

My husband has a very strong sex drive keeps asking... I'm embarrassed to call the Dr office

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Laughing till I'm crying as I type....back door friends are best friends.....

@_@

When you're feeling up to it, go for it just be careful

We waited less than a week. It didn't seem to kill his mood when I said 3 times...."careful, careful". lol :D

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We waited less than a week. It didn't seem to kill his mood when I said 3 times...."careful' date=' careful". lol <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':D' /> [/quote']

Wow less then a week post op !!!

I need to hit it tonight then.... Lol

I'm going on my 4th week coming this Monday ... Lol

lol...get it girl, why dont u just take control, at least like that u know u wont hurt urself.

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Ok it's done!!!!

I'm good I feel great everything in its place I was really comfterbule all the time.....lol

Thanks guys!!!! Whooo woooo!!!!

Ok it's done!!!!

I'm good I feel great everything in its place I was really comfterbule all the time.....lol

Thanks guys!!!! Whooo woooo!!!!

That a girl! ;)

...and if it helps, Sex after a fill is AMAZING! ;)

I had surgery last Friday and we got it on last night. I was pretty much a "dead fish" because it still hurts for me to bend and tighten my stomach, but he didn't seem to mind, I'm all into it any other time so whatever! I was laying on my side and he ran his hands down my side and made a comment about how much I've lost and how he could really tell then gave me a super sweet kiss. I couldn't tell him no. Lol.

Funny story, maybe something that I probably shouldn't share, but whatever - he usually.. you know... on my stomach (if we're in that position, usually aren't) but last night I panicked and stopped him and gasped "Wait! Don't do it on my tummy!" And we both laughed at my random outburst. Lol, one of those things you had to be there... not that I'd want you to be. Lmao.

On another note, I can't wait for sex 50 lbs from now, hell, even 30 lbs.

Sent from my Galaxy Nexus using LapBandTalk

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I had surgery last Friday and we got it on last night. I was pretty much a "dead fish" because it still hurts for me to bend and tighten my stomach' date=' but he didn't seem to mind, I'm all into it any other time so whatever! I was laying on my side and he ran his hands down my side and made a comment about how much I've lost and how he could really tell then gave me a super sweet kiss. I couldn't tell him no. Lol.

Funny story, maybe something that I probably shouldn't share, but whatever - he usually.. you know... on my stomach (if we're in that position, usually aren't) but last night I panicked and stopped him and gasped "Wait! Don't do it on my tummy!" And we both laughed at my random outburst. Lol, one of those things you had to be there... not that I'd want you to be. Lmao.

On another note, I can't wait for sex 50 lbs from now, hell, even 30 lbs.

Sent from my Galaxy Nexus using LapBandTalk[/quote']

Omg! I have lost 26lbs and I felt a huge difference .....I can just imagine at 50 or 60 lbs lost omg can't wait.....can you imagine at 100lbs lost @_@ Jesus!!! Lol

Day eight post op feeling like I might be well enough for some fun and frickin Aunt Flo comes today

Day eight post op feeling like I might be well enough for some fun and frickin Aunt Flo comes today

Awe man that sucks sorry hope she doesnt hang around too long.;-)

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Day eight post op feeling like I might be well enough for some fun and frickin Aunt Flo comes today

Oh man!!!

Tell her to take a hike....lol

Wore my beast mode guerrilla outfit (7 days post op) and chased my wife all around the house into bedroom. I'm proud to report... Mission accomplished. .All is secure and safe on the home front.

P.S. I was kidding about the guerrilla outfit ;)

Lot's of new positions to try out! Don't deprive yourself.

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