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Sex After Lap-Band Surgery

I'm 3 weeks Post-Op is it to soon?

My husband has a very strong sex drive keeps asking... I'm embarrassed to call the Dr office

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Lot's of new positions to try out! Don't deprive yourself.

Go gettem tiger :)

All i got to say is have fun it only gets better!!!!!

hubs asked me, when you lose weight or diet sometimes doesnt your period go shorter? I was like oh please yes

Last night was one week post op... It was our usual but we got the job done... I'm thinking round 2 tonight :-)

Woke the snoring beast up for a 3am sesh. It must of been good because I woke up to a really sweet note. Lol.

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hubs asked me, when you lose weight or diet sometimes doesnt your period go shorter? I was like oh please yes

I was talking to a senior Banster who has been banded for 12 years. He said this regarding your hormones and sex as you loose fat cells:

"In your fat cells lay a lot of hormones especially testosterone. When the fat begins to melt off, testosterone is released causing a big spike in your sexual appetite."

I'm not a doctor....but I thought what he said was interesting. We shall see :)

Well, I see this is mostly ladies talking so I figured I would chime in for the fellas. I have lost 170+ pounds.... and sex is AMAZING!!! A totally different world. My wife is a smaller girl and she is amazed! Just another added benefit to a longer healthier lifestyle!

since surgery I have lost about 15 lbs, i dont know it that will be enough for a difference, but possibly.

I'm not hungry And I'm not worried about work outs I just wanna get back in the bedroom. The night before surgery was a marathon just in case it'd be a while. Lol. I would be surprised if I made it thru the weekend

I was told to wait two weeks and we did because my hubby was scared of hurting me but we did at the two week point and it was fine just take it easy ur three weeks out I would say ur good to go certain positions are easier then others but soon enough u will be good for a marathon again lol I say do it just take it easy see what works best for u...with out getting into two much detail I recommend all fours with a pillow beneath u to support ur stomach that's what I found worked best....hope that wasn't tmi!!! Good luck and have fun;) just imagine the possibilities once the weight starts falling off that's what I'm looking forward too lol

I was told to wait two weeks and we did because my hubby was scared of hurting me but we did at the two week point and it was fine just take it easy ur three weeks out I would say ur good to go certain positions are easier then others but soon enough u will be good for a marathon again lol I say do it just take it easy see what works best for u...with out getting into two much detail I recommend all fours with a pillow beneath u to support ur stomach that's what I found worked best....hope that wasn't tmi!!! Good luck and have fun;) just imagine the possibilities once the weight starts falling off that's what I'm looking forward too lol

I don't think you really HAVE to go into detail for an image to appear with that one! Lmao! Oh lawdy!

Sent from my Galaxy Nexus using LapBandTalk

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