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well usually when i am stressed i eat...not this time. i just feel sick to my stomach. i found out earlier today my twin sister passed away- we're 38. my heart is broke...and i don't feel like eating at all. i did manage to choke down some dinner for the kids sake. my hubby is military so i had to do the entire red cross thing so they could contact him and get him home. he will be home later tonight. this is all so new to me because usually i eat. it's crossed my mind but it just doesn't sound good at all to me. i just want to know how people deal with stress and the band. all new to me since i was banded may 20th.

thank you, gypsy

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thank you.

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So very sorry for your loss.My thoughts are with you.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Ohh sweetie.... I am so sorry to hear this. Kudos to you for not turning to food... sometimes a hard core workout is great for releasing stress and elevating your feel good hormones. This cannot be easy for you. Prayers coming your way...

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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So sorry to hear about your loss. I will be praying that God's hand will be upon your family and that your husband will get come safe. Pease remember you have to let yourself grieve it only makes it worse to hold it in. You have your whole life for the Lapband, but this is your time for take care of yourself!

Cheri

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I am also so sorry for your loss. I hope your husband is able to come home soon to comfort you.

I would agree with the other posting regarding the workout to relieve some stress. Often times I would rather not exercise, but after I do it, I feel better.

Mo

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i am really sorry to hear of your loss. stay strong and keep your head up. maybe go for a nice long walk to clear your head. think of all the good memories you shared with her. then treat yourself to a nice bubble bath. i'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

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Scream, runner, do a kick box class, anything intense to get out the feelings. May God bless you tonight and in the days that follow. Hugs and prayers for you...

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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what that must feel like. Please take care of yourself through this difficult time.

My prayers are with you and your family.

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I am very sorry for your loss :cool:(

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so sorry to hear about your twin sister. it must be very hard. i'm glad your husband is coming home soon. i'm a stress eater too but i'm new so don't have any advice on that front.

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