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If that's the case......should I be ready? My husband is doing his RNY a month before I do mine.

Yes get ready lmbo

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How long after surgery until u felt good enough to have sex again?

I had sex at I think 6 days after my surgery. We did it in a way that didn't cause my abs to be stressed at all (read doggy style). I'm 11 days out and feel almost back to normal. My sex drive is through the roof right now too.

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How long after surgery until u felt good enough to have sex again?

I had sex about 10 days post op and look what happened! (see profile pic) LoL!!

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

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I had sex about 10 days post op and look what happened! (see profile pic) LoL!!

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

:D

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 213.2

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Has anyone experience the opposite? ? Both my husband and I had surgery 4weeks apart. ..I have almost no energy at end of the day snd no desire to be intimate. ..I don't know why...he is and has been a gorgeous man ..but I just cantfind it in me to have sex everytime he wants :'(

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I had sex about 10 days post op and look what happened! (see profile pic) LoL!!

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

Your funny lmbo it was the best sex if your life I bet. Bet the neighbor heard you :)

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Your funny lmbo it was the best sex if your life I bet. Bet the neighbor heard you <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />

Lmao. More like zombie sex. I was still doped up off of those percocets!! My hubby is a pervert.

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

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Lmao. More like zombie sex. I was still doped up off of those percocets!! My hubby is a pervert.

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

Lmbo that's funny

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I'm fine with my wife's size but if RNY will increase her sex drive I'm gonna have her meet with my surgeon!! Jeeeze! In my case it's been 3 years! Last was when I was in the 300's' date=' she always says, "I miss my big guy"[/quote']

Frank I feel your pain. It's been a long time for me to. Not by choice but bc I'm not attracted to my partner at all. Have no desire to have sex with him. But my hormones are raging!

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Ha ha ha! You girls are funny! I hope I can get back into BEAST MODE! Just plucking daisies over here *sigh*

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Love this thread. Cracks me up. Personally I haven't had sex for a decade. Yikes. Single and haven't been interested in dating. I'm sure that will change as my self esteem grows.

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I'm in the same boat as the both of you. My hubby says I'm sexy and loves me but if i didnt initiate it i would not get it and i want it. My husband and I never had a bad sex life. The sex is great. But now that I have lost so much weight I definitely have more energy and ready to be more daring LOL he will look at me and say didn't we have sex the other night? You just don't get enough. I say nope. You would think they'd be happy

These post have me thinking of Al and Peggy Bundy from Love and Marriage-I would wonder how a man could turn down sex- it's age

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I had sex about 10 days post op and look what happened! (see profile pic) LoL!! HW:358 DOS:338 CW:278 SD:1/28/13

He is too cute!

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I can't seem to want sex much. Maybe that's in comparison though. I expected surgery to make me want it more, but I still can't match the everyday/several times a day desires of the hubs. Maybe once I lose more and start exercising more. I'm still just 4 months out and going through the various aches and pains of a changing body shape.

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