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While yes some women squirt really really far or gush a lot of Fluid some just have a trickle or a little stream...everyone is different

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I know this sounds crazy, but I have squirted just from a cliteral orgasm. Not really squirt, but it is a very heavy stream. I do it all the time.

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Yeah it just has to be a strong orgasm that you let yourself go during...it doesn't have to be brought on by gspotting

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I posted this under the rabbit thread too. Adam and eve have a 1/3 off sale right now. Seems like a good deal to me.

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Too late for me...like I said me and my hubby have a trunk filled with goodies lol :smile2:

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Which one do you like the best to use with your husband? I have a very hard time having an orgasm. I really don't like oral sex and everyone tells me that's the best way to have one. I have had other partners, and it's never really done anything for me. I am looking for a toy we can use that might help me have one with my husband.

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Is it possible to make a woman squirt? or is this a myth and I should stop trying........

It is possible and the only reason I'm answering this is because I've done it.. It's not really squirting like across the room or what you see in porn. I "gush" more then squirt.:thumbup: It usually only happens from really good clitoral stimulation!

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Which one do you like the best to use with your husband? I have a very hard time having an orgasm. I really don't like oral sex and everyone tells me that's the best way to have one. I have had other partners, and it's never really done anything for me. I am looking for a toy we can use that might help me have one with my husband.

There are so many toys out there, it would be good to know which one is a good one.

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They love rings should have a pretty strong vibration...if you don't want to use something either pleasure yourself or have your lover do it while you're having sex...try different positions...sometimes it's easier for me to orgasm in certain positions. Relax and remember to breth. When you breath it allows your blood to flow better into your pubic area and stuff so that you can reach you boiling point quicker then you would if you hold your breath. I like it when my husband makes me orgasim before sex (either with oral sex or just touching/rubbing) and then as soon as I orgasm he gets in and we get going. It allows me to maintain my orgasm and have multiple ones...good luck

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Sex after the band.... I haven't been banded yet but my surgeon plans to put the port up almost on the bra line, is this going to be an issue for breast play? Does it bother any or you or your partners?

Oral - we're supposed to avoid vomitting with the band, if you gang from giving oral can you cause slippage?

Any of your experiences would be great - has the band affected your sex life at all?

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I have NEVER vomited durring or after oral sex...so that isn't a concern for me... lol sex is fine for me and my hubby no problems and my port is lower than that...

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ok question lol my boyfriend can usually last a long time in bed but if I move a certain he goes instantly...he said it feels like i'm ribbed on the inside and it happens everytime....I know its a truly awesome thing haha but he said he's never felt that before in another girl...does that sound weird or do i just have a magic va jay jay haha

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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