Check out the email I got this morning from the "great" guy I have been seeing for the last three weeks.

>>Just so you know, Chris is married to me. In other words, he has a wife. Please leave us alone. >>

It came from his email address, and I haven't heard from him since.

I never did see his house...something always came up when we were supposed to hang out there.

I seriously thought I was going crazy because he was acting so strange but I discounted it to mono...which he probably never had but just needed to buy some time for the wife.

Poor woman.

I want revenge. I want to make him squirm. I want this to have been a bad dream and to wake up tomorrow and have it not be true.

I'm so upset I'm not even hungry. That says a lot, let me tell you.

Which one of you posted that I should make sure to see his house and meet his friends before I got too attached? You were right on sister.

Megan

Oh Megan, That is awful!!! I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. What a nut job he must be. Yes, you must make him squirm! Teresa

I thought of that...and I guess it doesn't matter if it's true or not at this point. I'd so much rather it wasn't true because I would NEVER EVER EVER EVER do this to another woman.

The weird thing is that today when we were emailing throught the day- which we always did- he was talking about my birthday tomorrow and where we were going to go for dinner...and how he wanted to go away with me for the weekend sometime soon. Also, he asked me how you cancel your match.com membership.

I smell a rat. A big one.

MIchelle: any wife that suspects her hubby is cheating will climb through shit to find the proof. So yes she can find the emails and whatever else she needs to prove he is a scumbag. I know cause I went through the same thing when I suspected my ex was cheating.

Megan: I am so sorry you were put through this. All I can say is "He is a MAN after all." Not all are bad but the ones like him give the good ones a bad reputation. I sent you a PM.

I am afraid I was the one who was leery. I so wish I had been wrong you seemed so happy. I am so sorry, honey. From the bottom of my heart Here is a great big ((((((hug.)))))) I wish I could take your anger and hurt away. You will be fine. There is someone out there who will be your knight in shining armor just not him. We are all here for you so don't think alone ((((((HUGS))))))))again.

OMG, that is awful Megan. Although I would NEVER EVER EVER do that, I must refer back to something my friend told me after she found out her "man" was already engaged.... "I guess I should feel lucky, it is much better to be the one having it then the one being had!"... then she dumped him.

oh Megan, I'm so sorry. What a jerk.

What an A$$Hole ! ! I'm sorry your going throught this.

:cool: Very bad news indeed. I'm really sorry to hear this. You deserve so much better!

The weird thing is that today when we were emailing throught the day- which we always did- he was talking about my birthday tomorrow and where we were going to go for dinner...and how he wanted to go away with me for the weekend sometime soon. Also, he asked me how you cancel your match.com membership.

Sounds like a Scott Peterson-type personality to me. Did he ever call you from any "exotic" places? Run, Megan, Run!

Megan,

I am really sorry for you. Men can be scum of the earth whether they are single , married or whatever. I find it hard to believe that his wife is able to check his email as well. Most married guys cover their tracks well, since he has probably done this before. Is it possible that he is divorced or separated and the ex is trying to make trouble?

As you may know, I am a recruiter. One of my candidate that I was working with actively to place in a new opportunity sent me a strange email that said simply; I am no longer interested in the position you are presenting me for. This happened a few hours after I spoke with him on the phone and he was eager about it. I thought it was highly suspicious, I called him and he almost had a heart attack. Apparently his ex wife got hold of his address list and email account and emailed everyone bogus messages to mess him up. I am not saying that is the case here, but ya never know. Either way, this guy has issues and you would be best to stay away from him.

You deserve better. Repeat after me! Hang in there. You will meet a great guy and be very happy.

Babs in TX

Megan, I'm so sorry! :cool: Whatever the reality, you DON'T deserve the negative drama this man has just brought to your life. You are a strong and beautiful woman, and your man is out there waiting for you.

(((hugs))) to you my friend!

Just when you were starting to build up confidence that there were still a few good one's out there... this happens! Heck, Im even mad at him!

Run, Megan, Run! And don't look back or give it a second's notice. It's done and you deserve better than all this crap. I'm really, really sorry. Go, now, just go. (((hugs)))

I must have missed the post about his job. You're a much stronger woman than me if you can just walk away, it would haunt me not to have the last word(s).

I am so sorry Megan what jerk. I hope you are doing fine {{{Hugs}}}