So I was having a conversation with a coworker about breast size. She is aware that I am dieting...but that's all. Anyway I shared with her that I was a size 36C before I got pregnant and then started to gain weight 4 years ago. Now I'm in a 48DDD. Yes triple D's. She informed me that I would never be back lower than a DD with sagging boobs. I thought that was a horrible thing to say which is why I didn't share that I had WLS with her to begin with. What she said hurt my feelings a bit. Whatever happened to encouragement. Isn't that free?

Whatever will be will be. I'm ready mother nature!

On 11/26/2019 at 12:02 AM, Lynnbushea said:

So I was having a conversation with a coworker about breast size. She is aware that I am dieting...but that's all. Anyway I shared with her that I was a size 36C before I got pregnant and then started to gain weight 4 years ago. Now I'm in a 48DDD. Yes triple D's. She informed me that I would never be back lower than a DD with sagging boobs. I thought that was a horrible thing to say which is why I didn't share that I had WLS with her to begin with. What she said hurt my feelings a bit. Whatever happened to encouragement. Isn't that free?

Sounds like maybe she is a bit jealous of your weight loss to me. This is also the type of person that will try their best to sabotage your efforts.

Dont let her hurt your feelings. She is the one with a problem. Not you.

Opinions are just opinions they are not statements of fact. We can't control what other people think or say, but we can control how we react to it. If we can laugh off such comments we don't allow others any power over the way we think or act.