I just got my surgery date for March 5. I am excited and nervous at the same time but I'm trying to hold it all together.

And the sun is shining in Illinois on your day.

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6 minutes ago, js said:

I'm getting my surgery on the 22 of March. I'm so excited after having to fight with my insurance company for 3 weeks & I thought it wasn't going to happen. I'm actually getting the sleeve after having the band for a few years & it was removed this past summer. The band didn't work at all for me. I'm nervous about the sleeve working, but I'm very excited to finally get it done. I'm struggling with the liquid diet. I'm hungry & I can't keep drinking these shakes! There's got to be something else I can have! Good luck with your surgery!

Best of luck to you! I'm hoping you have a speedy recovery!

42 minutes ago, SleeveinIL said:

I’m on my way to go get sleeved! The day has finally come. See you afterwards.

Good luck to you -- its easier than you think!

I had my surgery March 5th. I have had a really rough time since getting out. I had to stay overnight and I felt fantastic when I got out. With the exception of the incisions not healed all the way I am doing good. The day after my surgery, my son passed away unexpectedly at age 31. The police came to my house an hour after I got out. I have not concentrated on what I should be doing and immediately following finding out I ate foods I should not because people were bringing all kinds of food to my house . I ate stuff like a half a cupcake and I began smoking. Losing my son has taken its toll on me. Physically I feel fine, but mentally I am heartbroken and my coping skills are weak. I had lost 13 pounds and the last two days gained 2 and I actually was following the instructions. It has been a roller coaster since the day after and I feel hungry and it might be hungry in my brain. It almost just seems I don't even care about having the surgery anymore, I have had other things on my mind like preparing for his service and everything and now that it is over I feel empty. I am hoping to get back on track...

@Presurg1 I'm so sorry. Please try to care for yourself during this difficult time.

@presurg1 I also am the mother of an Angel son. My son died 10 years ago also at the age of 31. When I saw your message it gave me such a jolt emotionally. I don't know what I can offer or what would be helpful to say. All I can do is offer friendship, and I do that wholeheartedly. If you ever feel like talking please remember I too have walked that path and I walk it still. God Bless you at this time.

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1 hour ago, Presurg1 said:

I had my surgery March 5th. I have had a really rough time since getting out. I had to stay overnight and I felt fantastic when I got out. With the exception of the incisions not healed all the way I am doing good. The day after my surgery, my son passed away unexpectedly at age 31. The police came to my house an hour after I got out. I have not concentrated on what I should be doing and immediately following finding out I ate foods I should not because people were bringing all kinds of food to my house . I ate stuff like a half a cupcake and I began smoking. Losing my son has taken its toll on me. Physically I feel fine, but mentally I am heartbroken and my coping skills are weak. I had lost 13 pounds and the last two days gained 2 and I actually was following the instructions. It has been a roller coaster since the day after and I feel hungry and it might be hungry in my brain. It almost just seems I don't even care about having the surgery anymore, I have had other things on my mind like preparing for his service and everything and now that it is over I feel empty. I am hoping to get back on track...

I’m truly sorry to hear about your son, my condolences to you and family. I pray that in time things will fall back in place and you can continue with caring for yourself. Please come back update us, try to relax and think of the wonderful memories.

2 hours ago, Presurg1 said:

I had my surgery March 5th. I have had a really rough time since getting out. I had to stay overnight and I felt fantastic when I got out. With the exception of the incisions not healed all the way I am doing good. The day after my surgery, my son passed away unexpectedly at age 31. The police came to my house an hour after I got out. I have not concentrated on what I should be doing and immediately following finding out I ate foods I should not because people were bringing all kinds of food to my house . I ate stuff like a half a cupcake and I began smoking. Losing my son has taken its toll on me. Physically I feel fine, but mentally I am heartbroken and my coping skills are weak. I had lost 13 pounds and the last two days gained 2 and I actually was following the instructions. It has been a roller coaster since the day after and I feel hungry and it might be hungry in my brain. It almost just seems I don't even care about having the surgery anymore, I have had other things on my mind like preparing for his service and everything and now that it is over I feel empty. I am hoping to get back on track...

My heart is breaking for you. Take the time to take care of yourself. It is ok to be a little selfish right now. You are in my prayers.

Apple and Stevie,

How are y’all doing? The gas pain this morning was pretty bad. The pain meds have been great and I’ve gotten in some good walks.

I’ve had water, broth and jello. May be able to go home in the morning.

Hope y’all are doing great!!

The gas pain has been bad. That and the nausea have really put a damper on my recovery. Walking helps a lot!

The broth and gelatin cups at the hospital were icky, so I only had apple juice and water. I’m having my first protein shake post op right now.

Weirdest feeling so far was when I was eating a pudding cup and could only make it about halfway down. Feeling your stomach full on so little is a very odd sensation when you are used to eating a full plate to feel full. Eating a pudding cup before wouldn’t have even made a dent in my appetite before.

I did experience the post op regret that others have mentioned. Still feeling it a bit since it’s so hard to move around. Once I can use my abs without pain, I’ll be in a better mood.

Overall, things went according to plan. My doctor and nurses were excellent and I’d definitely recommend them. 10 days until I can have soft foods!
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[mention=334517]charismatic[/mention] [mention=336135]Stevie the Sleevey[/mention] [mention=323697]Apple203[/mention] hope you guys are doing ok... Many blessings and speedy recovery. congrats...

Thanks for the well wishes! Things are better each day.

I am so excited I haven't been able to sleep for most of the week. I'm like a kid on Christmas morning. At 930 tomorrow I check-in to have my sleeve!
I haven't told anyone on my job either. My partner and mother are the only ones that know. I don't know about anyine else, but at first I felt like I was doing something to be embarrassed about, but that's not it. This was/is a very deep and personal decision and I didn't want the opinions of other people that had no idea what I was going thru for so many years being obese. There is much confusion on my job as to what I'm doing and it cracks my up! Am I going away for vacation, FMLA[emoji848][emoji848][emoji848]

I didn’t tell anyone either. I was going to, but I don’t want them to discount the work I’m doing to lose the weight. This isn’t the easy way out. More like a tool to aid in your success. We can do this!

Apple and Stevie,

How are y’all doing? The gas pain this morning was pretty bad. The pain meds have been great and I’ve gotten in some good walks.

I’ve had water, broth and jello. May be able to go home in the morning.

Hope y’all are doing great!!

I’m doing well. I just came home yesterday afternoon.

Have you been using your belt? That has helped me a lot!

I’m on my way to go get sleeved! The day has finally come. See you afterwards. [emoji6]

Good luck!

32 minutes ago, Stevie the Sleevey said:

I’m doing well. I just came home yesterday afternoon.

Have you been using your belt? That has helped me a lot!

Hey Stevie, don’t mean to interrupt, but was wondering which belt are you using?

Hey Stevie, don’t mean to interrupt, but was wondering which belt are you using?

It’s a giant elastic band that Velcro closes. It covers your torso. Mine was on me post op when I woke up. I’m supposed to wear this for 6 weeks.