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I believe I was just insulted at my gym.

I'm not upset. Just bit perplexed by this.

Been at this gym for three years. I like to give off the I'm working out leave me alone vibe..lol. No make up, sweaty, ball cap and headphones on. lets people know this is not my chat time.

I was one of four people in the stretching area. It's a pretty quiet private area.

I have a bit of an idea of what this hand gesture is..But not totally. The three men in the area were not stretching . One was pretending to slide dollar bills at me quickly....Something to do with strippers.... right? When he realized I saw him he walked away freaking quickly.

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10 hours ago, JerseyJules said:

Most men of our generation would welcome sexual harassment, the new millennial snowflakes and the PC Police however, may have an issue with it..

Shoot, just even for a woman to notice me would be a win. But I am a long ways away from surgery. First, I have to get a heart valve repaired.

For the record, I had to look up the "making it rain" gesture, and without the money in the hand, it does look like it could be an insult.

So, thanks for teaching me something! This thread is great!

  • 6 months later...

I try to compliment people whenever I can. If I like something - their hair, clothes, shoes, whatever - I'll comment on it. It takes no time and it makes the person feel good. I'm not creepy about it, I usually just say something like "oh, I love your shoes!" and walk away.

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  • 1 month later...

Dang. I hate it when I show up and the fun is over. Wait... that sentence makes it sound like that my showing up halted the fun. Oh, well.

I think I'd be insulted, hot or not. Men who objectify women are pretty much cavemen... dragging women around by their hair if they could (except for WLS women. Some of us "got" no hair!)

Preach it Sister Missouri- Lee's Summit! The Word is within You Today! (Watched,too many TV Evangelists and it shows!) LOL
  • 3 months later...
I will go out on a limb and say at times, certain women can be WAY WORSE when paying a compliment cause they feel the old double standard rule applies to them..I often had girls walk by, and literally say "Damn"....Or "hello, how you doin?" in the Joey from friends voice.. I have also been called Delicious, right here on these very forums..lol (granted I posted an underwear picture...lol..)
That's definitely me as and I'm as lesbian as it comes. I usually do that to a guys I've perceived to be a jock, or a*****e. I'm a piece of crap and completely wrong for doing it (especially because I'm sure all those guys aren't bad), but guess whose got two thumbs and sleeps well at night?

NICE ASS BABY!!

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