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7 mos post op, divorced and 90 lbs gone ( pics)

Hello fam,

just a Lil update on my life . 7 months post op. I was sleeved Dec 5. I am officially divorced now. I am happy n really enjoying me in this new bod. The surgery wasn't the reason for my divorce ,my husband was a caterer cheater , lol. But the surgery made him feel that now I was a threat in the marriage because I was getting attention . But it was his insecurities n lied that kept him from appreciating the woman he had. So , hell with him, I'm single as a dollar bill now.

I am 7 mos post op and down 90 lbs ( 89.7 to be exact). I weigh 153 lbs and I am 5'7. I now wear a size 4 in women's clothing and even fit into size 2 Vera wang dress today, NSV for me. My surgeon set my goal at 150 lbI feel so good about the choice I made to have this surgery and I would do it 10 more time if I had to. Enjoy the pics and good lock to everyone .

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6 hours ago, chuswysly said:

You're rockin' the new you❣️. Fabulous and beautiful. Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than confidence and a sincere smile

So sweet, thank you so much.

Girl you look so good. Dang those earrings look like they weigh 3lbs. LOL

Don't be afraid to get some counseling because of the divorce - I did that after mine 24 years ago and it really helped - then 20 years ago married the most wonderful man. Keep your head held high!!!

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9 hours ago, ElysiaDee said:

7 months! Wow! You look so gorgeous and young! I'm 38 and also 5'7, I hope I look even half as good as you when I get close to my goal weight! My goal personal weight is 150-155. I have about 100 to lose to get there and I should be able to finally schedule my surgery next month. Enjoy the single life, I find it is so much more peaceful and happier than being in a bad relationship. You are doing & looking so fabulous!

Also just FYI ELYSIADEE, I started out at 242 lbs .,. So you can do this girl and you will rock it as well. Stay encouraged.

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14 minutes ago, Sosewsue61 said:

Girl you look so good. Dang those earrings look like they weigh 3lbs. LOL

Don't be afraid to get some counseling because of the divorce - I did that after mine 24 years ago and it really helped - then 20 years ago married the most wonderful man. Keep your head held high!!!

Lol, my earrings weren't that heavy...n thank you. I feel I do need counseling and I plan on getting it sooner than later.

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56 minutes ago, OutsideMatchInside said:

@Dknal2

Damn girl you got divorced quick as hell!

Congrats on the weight loss.

Yep ... no blurred lines here!!!!n thank you hunni. I'm happier than I have been in a while

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49 minutes ago, Lisette703 said:

Amazing.

Thank you !

I see so many marriages end after the weight loss surgery were there about to end before


Gorgeous you look amazing!! Congratulations [emoji898]


Aka_ET

HW-220
Pre-op 194.3
RNY
SD June 16th 2017
CW-178
GW-140
HT 5' 3"
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"You may see me struggle but you will never see me quit"

How much did your partner/ husband weight? Count them in your weight loss.

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28 minutes ago, Dabearo said:

How much did your partner/ husband weight? Count them in your weight loss.

He weighed 204 so that makes my loss 294 lbs, lol.

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43 minutes ago, akaet said:

Gorgeous you look amazing!! Congratulations


Aka_ET

HW-220
Pre-op 194.3
RNY
SD June 16th 2017
CW-178
GW-140
HT 5' 3"


"You may see me struggle but you will never see me quit"

Thank you so much . Olive your lil theme at the bottom of the page as well, never quit.

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1 hour ago, bigjoe1234 said:

I see so many marriages end after the weight loss surgery were there about to end before

Mine was in trouble well before the surgery sweetness .

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On 7/26/2017 at 1:24 AM, Dknal2 said:

Thank you so much.., u have been following me for a while and I thank you for that. I am happier in my spirit. Not just for the physical transformation but the mental 360 as well.

Your story just hit a nerve with me and I wanted to know you'd be okay. You were in my thoughts! :). Hope you're still doing well!

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