February Sleevers -- Let's Do This Together

[anina 17]

That's so frustrating! I can't believe they postponed it after you'd already started your pre-op diet!!! The only reason I could see to do that is if you had told them you had cheated quite badly -- then it's a safety issue because your liver won't be healthy enough to move out of the way for the operation. Otherwise, if you're sticking to the pre-op diet -- which frankly is more difficult than healthy eating post-op -- they should be able to see you have the discipline and mindset it takes to be successful after surgery! Rhetorical question: What hoops have you had to jump through to get to this point? They obviously thought you were ready because they gave you a surgery date. As I was reading your post, I couldn't help but think the surgeon had a competing appointment (professional or personal) come up on his calendar for that day and he didn't want to tell you, so he made it all about you instead. There is no way some weight re-gain is the reason for postponing (and not canceling) your surgery. Surgeons understand that obese people have problems with their weight yo-yoing and that's exactly why we get this surgery in the first place! I am outraged with and for you, and while that may not be the type of support and comfort you need, please know I am here for you if you want to bitch and moan. Hopefully they will reschedule your surgery for sometime within a week of your original date if you are still on the liquid diet...and if you've already eaten solid  food, I hope they schedule it really soon! Again, I'm so sorry this happened to you!

Thank you! It is the kind of support I need! Just having someone to help me understand at least. I've been through all kind of appointments since August 2016, and my last meeting with the nutritionist was 2 weeks ago, and nobody mentioned anything about the weight gain. I'm on day 6 of the liquid diet, which only allows me 3 Protein shakes a day, broth, tea, and some green veggies with no oil or dressings. And I've done it perfectly!! I'm very proud of myself because it has not been easy at all, but I'm so excited and committed to this. I asked to meet with the surgeon tomorrow, but they seemed pretty sure about their decision. I'm going to try anyway. It's very unprofessional and heartbreaking for me to hear that I've made it this far to not know now of a date. Thank you again for your support. It feels good to let the frustration out. At least I know now that I can use this forum groups for support instead of using food and alcohol when things go the wrong way and I'm filled with anxiety

[JBlue 19]

My surgery is this Wednesday! Eeeeeep! Anyone else feeling/felt particularly anxious before surgery?

[JBlue 19]

4 hours ago, anina said:

Thank you! It is the kind of support I need! Just having someone to help me understand at least. I've been through all kind of appointments since August 2016, and my last meeting with the nutritionist was 2 weeks ago, and nobody mentioned anything about the weight gain. I'm on day 6 of the liquid diet, which only allows me 3 Protein shakes a day, broth, tea, and some green veggies with no oil or dressings. And I've done it perfectly!! I'm very proud of myself because it has not been easy at all, but I'm so excited and committed to this. I asked to meet with the surgeon tomorrow, but they seemed pretty sure about their decision. I'm going to try anyway. It's very unprofessional and heartbreaking for me to hear that I've made it this far to not know now of a date. Thank you again for your support. It feels good to let the frustration out. At least I know now that I can use this forum groups for support instead of using food and alcohol when things go the wrong way and I'm filled with anxiety

Good for you, Anina! None of that is easy. I agree with BosseNueva32-- the whole situation doesn't sound right. Something's very fishy. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, and I hope it all works out!

[anina 17]

Good for you, Anina! None of that is easy. I agree with BosseNueva32-- the whole situation doesn't sound right. Something's very fishy. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, and I hope it all works out!

Thank you JBlue! And good luck on Wednesday!! All the best to you, and hope to hear from you soon with updates and how great you feel after surgery

[SleevyB 35]

My surgery is this Wednesday! Eeeeeep! Anyone else feeling/felt particularly anxious before surgery?

Yes I did.(02/08/17) Then I started thinking about this summer and not being hot and sweaty because of the weightloss. After that I was fine.

[vsg_quinn 2]

Hi all!
I just downloaded app and am happy to find you all!
I am on day 2 of liquids and have surgery on the 22nd. I hope you all have a smooth surgery and fast recovery )

Quinn

[leelu 10]

17 minutes ago, SleevyB said:

Yes I did.(02/08/17) Then I started thinking about this summer and not being hot and sweaty because of the weightloss. After that I was fine.

That certainly helps keep things in perspective! Good point! I'm going to look forward to that as well!

[leelu 10]

6 minutes ago, vsg_quinn said:

Hi all!
I just downloaded app and am happy to find you all!
I am on day 2 of liquids and have surgery on the 22nd. I hope you all have a smooth surgery and fast recovery )

Quinn

Hey Quinn,

I'm on the 22nd with you. I'm on day 6 of liquids.. super excited about the surgery next week, and I've dropped at least 10lbs in the last 6days of liquids already. I have to keep pulling up my pants! Lol

[JTleanN17 9]

Hi all!
I just downloaded app and am happy to find you all!
I am on day 2 of liquids and have surgery on the 22nd. I hope you all have a smooth surgery and fast recovery [/img])

Quinn

Hey I'm on my 3rd day of liquids. Feeling kinda weak. 1st day at work on this diet. I hope it gets better.

[leelu 10]

18 minutes ago, JTleanN17 said:

Hey I'm on my 3rd day of liquids. Feeling kinda weak. 1st day at work on this diet. I hope it gets better.

I'm on day 6, and I feel like it's a lot easier.. those first 4 days were brutal.. but just take it day to day

[Cindy51657 16]

Feb 21st is my date. I'm 59, married for 41 yrs, 2 kids, 3 grandchildren and one on the way! I'm ready for this[emoji1317]

[findingdanielle 7]

Tomorrow is the big day! I'm just a mixed bag of emotions [emoji3][emoji52][emoji15][emoji848]

[Loribelle73 19]

Tomorrow is the big day! I'm just a mixed bag of emotions

Congrats! You got this!

[anina 17]

Im so happy! I just spoke with my doctor, and my surgery is back on track for next Tuesday 21st! It was a few days of uncertainty and stress with the possibility of having to reschedule due to my previous weight gain, but I proved to myself and the doctors how committed I am. I have lost 8 pounds during the first week of liquid diet thanks for your support, and good luck to everyone on your journeys!!

[joycey100 95]

Good luck [emoji6] just add mine done on Monday 13th Feb 2017 .