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So I'm getting sleeved in nine days, just started the pre op diet today, and I find myself so emotional. It's normal I know but I can't just fall apart now and stuffing it down with food is no longer an option. Anyone have some ideas about what to do with these emotions?

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Congrats, it's normal.

Read this: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/195065-you-know-you-lost-weight-when/

It helped me keep my eye on the prize...why I'm doing this and what I hope to accomplish.

Good luck with the pre-op diet, and start checking out Protein drinks. I think I kept my energy so high because I had that stuff ready as soon as I was cleared for liquids.

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This is normal. You've already done the hard part in making the decision to have the surgery. The rest of it's a journey for wellness. Nothing changes overnight. Stay on task, don't try to do it all at once, and keep pushing forward. You've got this!

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And you are likely to go through many more roller coasters in this process. I took a certain, heads down, put my shoulder to the grindstone attitude. During times when I doubted I could succeed, I just followed the program and pretended I believed. When I went through suddenly being visible and so many people noticing me, I pretended I was ok, and eventually I was.

It is quite a leap of faith we all take at the beginning...

One of my big lessons is I worried about the wrong things. :) That acceptance has helped me in other aspects of life too. Just keep making good choices, keep your eye on the prize and you will find much success.

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Prepare as best you can for the upcoming surgery.

* Make sure you have a good before photograph taken so that you can compare it with after weight.

* Walk at least 30 minutes every day. It will help you with the recovery process.

* If you haven't cut off caffeine do so now. When I went cold turkey on my diet Cokes, I suffered severe headaches and body aches for a week due to caffeine withdrawal. It is best you do not compound the effects of surgery with the effects of caffeine withdrawal.

* I had RNY surgery and I found that I could no longer swallow medium or large size pills or Vitamins after surgery. It took 2 months to recover my ability to swallow. So if this might be a problem purchase a pill splitter and a pill crusher.

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