I'm in the zone but terrified at the same time. I've been on a full liquid diet for almost 2 weeks now and go on clear fluids 12/14. I'm so anxious how long will I be in the hospital how will it go when will I walk will it hurt I don't know I don't know I don't know

It’s normal to be nervous before the surgery, I think we all go through the questioning in our heads.

Is this right for me? Will it be painful? How am I going to cope with so little food in the first few months? And on and on. However we all get through it and I can honestly say that it’s been one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life. I found the whole thing easier than I thought it would be. I am quite strict with myself 98% of the time and things have been smooth most of the time. Every day is better than the day before, always remember that. Sip sip sip and walk walk walk. That's all you need t remember for the first few days.

Believe in yourself and your inner strength, you CAN do it. Make sure you come here for support and let us know how things go!!

I'm having my surgery on 12/16 too and all the same thoughts have been going through my mind. I think it's normal to have all those feelings, I mean it's a huge life change. I just have to keep bringing myself back around and telling myself that this is the right decision; I'm going to feel better inside and out. We've got this ???? Keep me posted on how your surgery goes. I'll let you know about mine as well.

I'm right there too. My surgery is 12/16 too. I am having these moments where I wander around my house looking for things to do so that it's ready for when I am in recovery. My husband is probably tired of my panic but with 2 kids under 2, two dogs, the holidays coming, adding surgery to the mix has me questioning everything. I know it's the right choice, and the perfect time with our schedules..... Just worried.

Same surgery date for me too. Worried about an egg or two I had this week with protein diet but I'm sure I will be fine. I had bad headaches/migraines for 3-4 days. But looking forward to the future! Good luck to all of us and God bless.

I have to smile. I understand! You are probably a bundle of nerves. You'll find your answers here. The doctor should tell you by now how long he expects you to be in. Yes, it will hurt. So take your pain meds and sleep all you can. You will get through it but it is hard for the first month. But it is so worth it! Be good to yourself and try to rest and relax.

12/16 for me as well and I'm super nervous. I know it'll be difficult but it will be worth it in the long run. Luckily I can always come here for great support!

I'm at my surgical clearance now lost 12 pounds in 2 weeks of liquid diet woot woot!!! I'm so anxious I'm literally sweating bullets now. Apparently I have to be in hospital tomorrow from 8am to 2pm for pre-op to meet with surgical team (a one day class prep) then the surgery is 7am Wednesday. Ahhhhh

How is everyone doing that had surgery with me on 12/16?

I'm ok! Feeling pretty good, off pain meds. I'm having a hard time getting my protein in because it feels like I barely eat. I can't wait for mushy foods next week!