I have had so many people that say you dont need surgery. Or even people that say you're taking the easy way out. UMMM by reading what I have read so far about this surgery...it is not the easy way out! I wish people realized what all I will have to go thru. And I absolutely need this surgery, if not for my health, for my sanity. I cannot stand the person I have become. Cant find anything to wear, my closet full of cute clothes dont fit, I have gained 50 lbs in 10 months, cant bend down to shave my legs for crying out loud, dont want to have sex with hubby of 20 years, I cut my hair off because I am too lazy to fix it, out of breath, dont want to go to parties or summer events involving bathing suit.....the NEED for surgery is crutial to my mental well being. I feel so excited about my surgery and I want to shout it to the roof tops. Then when I do I get this reaction. What a bummer! People are so mean some times.

Getting slim and getting "YOU" back is the best revenge especially when they can't figure it out!Keep them mystified...tell them nothing!Its great!

@@Pinkgirl1234 I agree that is the best revenge!!!!! Being happy and healthy.

I find that the ones who commented so negatively with me were very much insecure themselves. So just the thought of me being happy and healthy just made them cringe.

Time for revenge.

Oh yeah!!!:-)

My last post...sigh...

I typically don't participate in posts that are suspicious of trolling behavior, but I truly hope that you really mean you're done posting now. Thanks in advance.

Yes I've only told 4 ppl... My husband and sis in law are my biggest supporters.

What you just wrote is exactly who I am! Are we twins? You made the right guy decision love!!