I have the nastiest thunder cottage cheese thighs, and flapping arms. Realistically, what shoul I do here?

I gotta say, that is the first time I've heard it called that! Had me rolling off my chair! Not sure what can be done, how long ago did you have your surgery? Are you looking into plastic surgery? I went to a support group meeting here locally last night, where a plastic surgeon spoke to our group. There are a number of options available (most of which insurance will NOT cover), and they are pricey (they started at about 5K to around 13K). There is one for arms (I think it is called bracchioplasty), and it will leave a long scar. Then there are body lifts, and others specifically for the lower torso. If you have a support group where you are, suggest having a plastic surgeon come and speak, it is very informative. There is liposuction, which may help with the newly "fashionable" cottage cheese look! I wish you all the best with this!

I just cover my with clothes..lol. I figured it was not pretty before the surgery so at least I feel better and am getting healthy.

Oh my... Yea tried to fill that extra skin up with muscle only helped a bit. Moisturized and Vitamin E and all those things didn't seem to help much at all.

It's mostly genes and age. And plastic surgery.