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I'm hoping to have sleeve in June/July. I am mother/stepmother of 4 teenage boys a toddler and have a husband. I cook dinner most nights. Any tips for cooking for family after I am sleeved?

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It has been easy for me to cook for the family. They eat healthier.

I make chicken or Steak fajitas. They have a tortilla I don't. I always make more than what the family will eat to freeze in small containers. Frozen left overs are a easy microwave lunch for me at work.

Ground turkey chilly. I make a few corn bread muffins for the family I make sure they eat them all that night. I don't want to be tempted.

banana slices with sugar free chocolate pudding(added Protein powder). I add a bit of sugar free caramel topping on the bananas. I chop up a sugar free toffee and nuts and sprinkle them on top

Asian stir fry. I serve it with brown rice. I'm far enough out that I'm allowed brown rice.

Anyway..There are many resources for bariatric friendly recipes. Try the world according to egg face.

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Pinterest and Google!!! They have some really yummy post op recipes. I would search vsg recipes, or wls recipes, or bariatric recipes. A lot comes up.

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Thanks I will check those out for sure! It's been hard in past to diet while having to find things that family would eat. I don't want to be eating the wrong things. I guess my family shouldn't be eating those either but try expaining that to teenage football players-lol

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I think it can be hard when u are first sleeved bc u have head hunger and when you have been eating liquids for 6 days u start wanting real food but it gets easier once u can have real food ...u just cook healthy and ur family will eat it to

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Not for me...i have them of a diet too..lol not that they need it....

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Not at all hard or difficult. I'm a picky eater as is my daughter. I eat what I eat and if she doesn't like it she can cook for herself (so she usually eats what I eat). I prepared the full thanksgiving dinner at 7 weeks post-sleeve. I just find that I change what I cook, I don't bake lasagna or pizza anymore, I make chicken or faijtas. For comparison though, I had to make way more dietary changes with the lap band than I have with the sleeve. When I had the band everything got stuck, and there were so many foods I couldn't way because they wouldn't go down. With the sleeve there are only a couple foods that make me nauseous, and I just physically can't eat as much anymore. So, I can make all kinds of food for others, but when I sit down to eat I get like 5 bites in then I'm stuffed.

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I have a varsity football player, who is going into college ball. It actually makes cooking easier because I make sure he gets in more Protein and less carbs, lots of veggies. I say what I eat, he eats. He's actually gotten used to it. He doesn't complain, and definitely isn't starving. The only difference is I have my tiny bowl, he has his mega plate haha.

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I cook as well. Everyone wants what I eat and I may add a side or salad for them. But pretty much the same basic meal. They just have more of it

Today - tacos. They had shells I didn't

Yesterday shrimp and grits

They had some grits I had a spoonful

I've also made:

Tandoori chicken

chicken tikka masala

Pork roast

Short ribs

Chili

Arroz con pollo

Cuban Piccadillo

Codfish / bacala (am portuguese this is a basic food)

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I cook as well. Everyone wants what I eat and I may add a side or salad for them. But pretty much the same basic meal. They just have more of it

Today - tacos. They had shells I didn't

Yesterday shrimp and grits

They had some grits I had a spoonful

I've also made:

Tandoori chicken

chicken tikka masala

Pork roast

Short ribs

Chili

Arroz con pollo

Cuban Piccadillo

Codfish / bacala (am portuguese this is a basic food)

My family does this too! I'm 6 days post op and on soft/puree foods and my dad wants what I'm eating! I'm literally running everything through the blender and yet he wants everything!

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Since the day I came home I've cooked for my husband and kids. The first few time was rough for all of us because I wasn't sitting at the table, and I didn't want to, either, because I was a little upset I couldn't eat... head hunger sucks =/ But it gets easier and better. I'm only 3 weeks out so I still can't eat much, but it doesn't bother me anymore, especially since I don't feel hungry.

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I am having a difficult time adjusting to cooking for the family since surgery. Nothing sounds good to me and it makes meal planning a dreaded chore. I am trying to get better, but it is taking a long time.

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Did anyone freeze some meals before surgery? I was thinking of doing so for at least the 1st week or so...thoughts?

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for me, I had prepared freezer meals for the first two weeks. when I was on liquids and just starting foods I did not want to cook for my family - so they got to eat and I didn't go crazy cooking at that time. I could focus on my own nutritional needs.

but once I was on soft foods and then regular foods it is not a problem. I cook everything they like and pick the good choices for me from the meal. which usually means I am having the Protein and some veg, while they are also having a starch along with. it works out fine. when I make them spag with meat sauce I have the meat sauce with cheese for example.

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