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Had my Sleeve Aug 20, 2014

Had my sleeve on Aug 20th my top weight was 498lbs in Aug of 2013, I had what I think was a successful prep year (that's how long it takes up here in Canada) I lost 115lbs from Aug 2013-July 2014 and 20 lbs on the pre-op liquid diet. I did all the mental prep everything I was ask to do, I woke up after the surgery and I have been second guessing my decision, ever since, anyone else have this? hope it's just not me.

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I'm right there with you man, I'm second guessing myself very much. I really am feeling sad / depressed about that fact that I won't be able to really eat much at all anymore.

I know that this is the norm for people with the Sleeve but man do I wish I could have a chipotle burrito right now or some fries from BK. I'm hoping to make better health choices for food but man am I hating the world right now.

From what everyone says if we stick to it and take it slow, it'll be very worth it. I had this surgery suggested July and by Aug 22nd I had been sleeved. Insurance covered it and I didn't really think it would happen this fast. But hey I had the surgery and now I'm here.

I still kind of feel hungry but I think its mental hunger.

We can't undo what we did, we just have to look forward man. We will get through this ! Think of how awesome we are going to feel and look when we are closer towards our goal weight.

Keep me posted , I'm feeling the same way so if you need to talk man let me know.

My first week I felt the same. I took my time leading up to surgery and then immediately after surgery I was worried I had made a huge mistake. I think it has to do with mourning the relationship we have always known with food. I am now two weeks post op and I am pain free and tolerating my diet and feel really good about having the surgery :)

I'm right there with you man, I'm second guessing myself very much. I really am feeling sad / depressed about that fact that I won't be able to really eat much at all anymore. I know that this is the norm for people with the Sleeve but man do I wish I could have a chipotle burrito right now or some fries from BK. I'm hoping to make better health choices for food but man am I hating the world right now. From what everyone says if we stick to it and take it slow, it'll be very worth it. I had this surgery suggested July and by Aug 22nd I had been sleeved. Insurance covered it and I didn't really think it would happen this fast. But hey I had the surgery and now I'm here. I still kind of feel hungry but I think its mental hunger. We can't undo what we did, we just have to look forward man. We will get through this ! Think of how awesome we are going to feel and look when we are closer towards our goal weight. Keep me posted , I'm feeling the same way so if you need to talk man let me know.

Holy cow I can't believe your process moved so fast!!! I had to go through so many hoops to get approved by Insurance. There is no way I would have been mentally ready that quick and even with the time I took I still have days of doubts. I am sure those will lessen the further out from surgery.

Holy cow I can't believe your process moved so fast!!! I had to go through so many hoops to get approved by Insurance. There is no way I would have been mentally ready that quick and even with the time I took I still have days of doubts. I am sure those will lessen the further out from surgery.

I didn't think it would move that fast either but I work with Doctors for my job and knew the right people to see for the "checklist" they give you. I saw all the doctors and still through insurance would delay or stall, especially since I didn't have a main doctor so I wrote my own letter. Regardless I'm hoping this gets better because man do I miss the food. I think my mind has to catch up with my body at this point.

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I'm right there with you man, I'm second guessing myself very much. I really am feeling sad / depressed about that fact that I won't be able to really eat much at all anymore. I know that this is the norm for people with the Sleeve but man do I wish I could have a chipotle burrito right now or some fries from BK. I'm hoping to make better health choices for food but man am I hating the world right now. From what everyone says if we stick to it and take it slow, it'll be very worth it. I had this surgery suggested July and by Aug 22nd I had been sleeved. Insurance covered it and I didn't really think it would happen this fast. But hey I had the surgery and now I'm here. I still kind of feel hungry but I think its mental hunger. We can't undo what we did, we just have to look forward man. We will get through this ! Think of how awesome we are going to feel and look when we are closer towards our goal weight. Keep me posted , I'm feeling the same way so if you need to talk man let me know.

I hear you I feel kinda of hungry to but I do think it's mental hunger glad you both replied already makes me feel better

Hiya my date is coming up in a few weeks...but i do think about food and hope i won't miss it...I need to get rid of my diabetes but food have ben my comfort for soo loong...but i just know WE all can do this...good luck guys and stay strong!!!

Hi Ban,

I haven't been sleeved yet but I do get insight from reading your posts and others. I just want to quote my father who once told me 'when you make a decision, don't look back." I think that's applicable here. You can't go forward while looking in the rear view mirror. Your best days are ahead of you.:) Remain focused on the new life you are creating for yourself. I think the "decision" was the hardest part! Your new tool will help you on your journey to a new and improved you. I think that's great for u and those on here!

Hi Ban... I too was sleeved aug. 20th, so far pretty happy, i spent last night mourning food as well. I think this is normal, and i think we have to wrap our head around the permanence of our decision... Im down 14 lbs since surgery and trying not to think about food (still on liquids) i am focusing on the prize of this journey.. To be healthy and happy.... I keep repeating a phrase that i learned the 9 times i joined weight watchers over the years... " nothing tastes as good as thin feels" good luck to you and stay strong!

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