Many of you on here know me well, I have been a part of these message boards for years. I love our members and I want only the best for them. Therefore, I can not in good conscience keep this to myself any longer.

Dr. Illan is a wonderful surgeon. In fact, when I used to coordinate, for a while I actually referred patients to him. His coordinator, Omar, has a very, very faithful following. So much so, I fully expect and am prepared for the "verbal beating" I am going to get for going public with what I know. But, if I prevent just one woman from experiencing what I am about to share with you, then it will all be worth it.

As I said, Omar is very well loved among the patients, especially the ladies. He goes out of his way to ensure everyone has a great experience while there. He provides for the patient's every need, transports them around town, runs errands for them, sits by their bedside and so much more. He is very charming and charismatic. There will be many, many members who will respond to this thread stating just that. In fact, when the first patient, one that I had referred to them, approached me about what happened to her, I did her a horrible disservice by not really believing what she told me, because Omar did such a good job of convincing me otherwise. But now, after six woman, some of whom I referred to Dr. Illan, some not, have contacted me regarding what happened to them, I know now that first patient was telling me the truth, she did not misinterpret anything and I must speak out.

So, what is it that I am speaking off? I am talking about taking advantage of woman who have traveled to a foreign country by themselves, most likely have low self-esteem due to their weight issues, they are scared and they are lonely. Then, along comes Omar. He is by their side throughout their stay. He is, as I said before, charming and charismatic. They very quickly find themselves falling victim to him, and he takes advantage of them in several different ways. He either is sexually suggestive to them, sexually inappropriate, or convinces these woman he truly cares for/loves them and begins a romantic relationship with them. Because of how vulnerable they are, they believe he really does care about them, and they allow themselves to be wooed by him and have a romantic and/or sexual relationship with him. Then, shortly after, he basically dumps them. He quits responding to their calls, texts, etc. He leaves these woman feeling broken and foolish for falling for him. They feel like they have done something wrong, when in fact, they are merely the victim of a heartless man taking extreme advantage of his position and their vulnerability. Understand, I am not saying this happens with every patient, but it does happen and it shows an extreme lack of professionalism and moral character.

I have attempted to contact Dr. Illan to speak with him personally about this. Unfortunately, Omar makes that nearly impossible. All calls, emails, etc. are intercepted by him. And, here is the saddest part of all, Dr. Illan already knows what is going on. So, I am doubtful my talking to him would make a difference. Dr. Illan knows Omar has a strong fan base, and therefore, brings him a great deal of business. So, he turns a blind eye to what is happening. Which, is why I have no guilt in publicly coming out and sharing what I know. I will be honest, my goal here is to have Omar removed from his position as coordinator with Baja Bariatrics and Dr. Illan, and to see that he does not work in this field or any other field where he can take advantage of woman again. And, if Dr. Illan goes down as a result, well, shame on him for allowing it to happen in the first place.

This post will remain open until I request that it be closed. That will happen once appropriate resolution has taken place. If we close it down now, it will disappear and that is what the Omar Worshippers want. And, we would be doing a disservice to potential patients of Dr. Illan if we do not warn them about Omar as long as he is still in the employment of Dr. Illan and Baja Bariatrics. In the meantime, you can unsubscribe and refrain from opening it if it disturbs you.

Isn't there a way to keep it viewable without allowing new venom to spew? That way people can still search on it?

I agree I want people who are new to read and make their own decisions. It's just that no new posts have been in a debate forum so to speak.

We still have victims considering posting their experiences. If they decide to face the bullying, they deserve the opportunity to do so.

There is a finding checked by the federal court judge in his order concerning Omar which states "the defendant has a significant prior criminal record."   These documents are public record.   In the US, we are lucky to have diligent employers who do background checks.  

Is it "wrong" of "me" to "giggle" when I see "quotation mark" used "incorrectly"? Unless she "really" meant it "that" way. Hmmmm.... Brings an entirely "new" "twist to the "story".

I am not a newbie

I am not an Omar lover

I am not a Susan basher/supporter

And you can giggle all you like. You're proving my point

Goodness. Please show me where I said you were anything. I don't think I've addressed you at all.

Your "" actually made sense, so no, my dear, wasn't you.

Edited July 21, 201412 yr by LipstickLady

Goodness. Please show me where I said you were anything. I don't think I've addressed you at all. Your "" actually made sense, so no, my dear, wasn't you.

It was posted right after my quotation mark usage so just thought you were referring to me

 

Goodness. Please show me where I said you were anything. I don't think I've addressed you at all. Your "" actually made sense, so no, my dear, wasn't you.

It was posted right after my quotation mark usage so just thought you were referring to me

 

Nope.  Not even a little bit.  

There is a finding checked by the federal court judge in his order concerning Omar which states "the defendant has a significant prior criminal record."   These documents are public record.   In the US, we are lucky to have diligent employers who do background checks.  

 

Would you please PM me a link for this information?  I am collecting data to turn over to the proper authorities in Mexico and this would help a great deal.  I am not good at researching legal issues.

 

Thanks!

 

There is a finding checked by the federal court judge in his order concerning Omar which states "the defendant has a significant prior criminal record."   These documents are public record.   In the US, we are lucky to have diligent employers who do background checks.  

 

Would you please PM me a link for this information?  I am collecting data to turn over to the proper authorities in Mexico and this would help a great deal.  I am not good at researching legal issues.

 

Thanks!

 

http://www.gpo.gov/fdsys/pkg/USCOURTS-caed-1_06-cr-00352 

Would you please PM me a link for this information? I am collecting data to turn over to the proper authorities in Mexico and this would help a great deal. I am not good at researching legal issues. Thanks!

Chelsey. You need not do this. I can assure you, this is already being done. I have more information than what has been shared on here.

This is weird - the Baja Bariatrics website has this blurb under "our coordinator" :

 

"Omar is a certified, experienced Facilitator, based in EU. Omar has many experience as a health facilitator, he is dedicated to helping you safely travel for medical services, he will be happy to help and support you in your weight loss journey in Tijuana Mexico."

 

 

Isn't EU universally accepted as an abbreviation for European Union? And what is this certification? Perhaps it's all just poor English and auto-correct. Still weird though...

One thing I would like to add.  I do not hang out with criminals in the US or anywhere else.  I want to know who I am dealing with is not a gigolo or criminal.  A one night stand might be fun.  But know who you are sleeping with.  I can google and research anyone in the US, but Mexico, haha!.  All these women go to Mexico, have no idea they are hanging  with a felon/criminal/unknown but for sure has a criminal history but suave front man for the doctor who wines and dines them and keeps his employer happy with rave reviews.     

Dr. Illan is apparently too busy from just coming back from vacation to talk about the Omar situation right now, but states he is very interested. I'm sorry, what is more important than the safety of your patients? I don't care how busy you are, this should be your top priority.

Edited July 22, 201412 yr by *susan*

He is probably sweating at the thought of loss of income and is speechless.

He is probably sweating at the thought of loss of income and is speechless.

If this were the US, I'd say he is lawyering up. Have no idea how it works in Mexico or with out of country clients.

Would you please PM me a link for this information? I am collecting data to turn over to the proper authorities in Mexico and this would help a great deal. I am not good at researching legal issues. Thanks!

Chelsey. You need not do this. I can assure you, this is already being done. I have more information than what has been shared on here.

The more the merrier!