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FIVE POUNDS A YEAR VS FIVE POUNDS A MONTH



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It dawned on me this morning, how I'm now sort of close to my WEDDING DAY WEIGHT. (and yes, I know probably every single one of you remembers your weight at a specific time or event in your life.......LOL). I've been married going on 26 years, and I weighed at my highest, one hundred and thirty-seven pounds more than I did on my wedding day. That means, I averaged gaining about FIVE POUNDS A YEAR. Doesn't seem like that much, I mean, it's only five pounds.........

We all read post after post about "I'm not losing fast enough." How many times have I researched weight loss and talked to doctors and nurses who tell us that a good month's weight loss is about 1 - 2 pounds per week, or about FIVE POUNDS A MONTH. Again, it doesn't seem like that much, I mean, it's only five pounds.......

The point I'm trying to make is this.. ... Celebrate and congratulate yourself for each five pounds you've lost. It's such a huge accomplishment when you sit back and think about it. FIVE POUNDS is nothing to whine over. And if it takes you two to three months to lose that next five pounds, so be it.....

The weight didn't get put on overnight, and the weight isn't going to come off overnight either!!!!!!!!!!

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Great post! I know for a fact that it wouldn't have been my usual five pound gain this winter. If I were not banded I probably would have put on ten. In my case I had a big gain (fifty) but then it was the slow creep up from there until I had put on one-hundred. Wow, it's hard to type that, but there it is. But now half of that is gone. Phew! You are so right about time. I started this process saying that I didn't want to lose too fast -- it's one of the things about banding vs. some other surgeries. So I need to stick to that on the mornings when the scale hasn't moved. Slow and steady is what I am after -- a healthy weight loss.

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Hey gowalking,

We just finished with two weeks of Jazz Fest here in the Big Easy. Now gearing up for the end of the school year for two of my kids, a college graduation for one kid, and a celebratory CRAWFISH BOIL in her honor. This time last year, I was on my two weeks of liquid Protein shakes required by the medical research facility, as part of my lap band surgery...... We threw a crawfish boil then too for another kid's graduation....... It was by far one of the hardest NO food DAYS I ever went through. This year, I'll be able to eat those CRAWFISH, but only a small amount...... thanks to my beautiful band! Hope all is well with my NYC buddy!

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Hey gowalking,

We just finished with two weeks of Jazz Fest here in the Big Easy. Now gearing up for the end of the school year for two of my kids, a college graduation for one kid, and a celebratory CRAWFISH BOIL in her honor. This time last year, I was on my two weeks of liquid Protein shakes required by the medical research facility, as part of my lap band surgery...... We threw a crawfish boil then too for another kid's graduation....... It was by far one of the hardest NO food DAYS I ever went through. This year, I'll be able to eat those CRAWFISH, but only a small amount...... thanks to my beautiful band! Hope all is well with my NYC buddy!

Hooray for crawfish! I love it because it's alot of work for just a morsel of meat. Should keep you plenty occupied and no chance of overeating..LOL! Have a wonderful celebration and a great Mother's Day. Everything is good here in The Big Apple. Hope to see you on the cruise to lose next year!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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