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I'm wondering if anyone else can relate to what I'm going through lately. I don't know if it's a combination of Spring fever and a shrinking body or an attempt to replace food with sex but I am getting a lot of action lately. I'm not used to having a sex drive, lol. Anyone else go through this after surgery?

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Starting to, yes! Our hormones are finally back in balance!! Being obese suppresses so many hormones that are essential for healthy sexual functioning.

Honestly,though, I don't know why you'd be here reading this when you could be gettin' some! lol ;)

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Hahaha!

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HAHAHAHAHA OMG this is so perfect. The past few days for me have been insane! My main is loving it. Lol

Get out and enjoy it!!

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I am currently single and this scares me, lol, drive is more than high enough as it is. Look out, men!!

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Awww, I want to be horny too!! I hope I get sex crazed!! (so does the hubby!)

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If I had to say I had any let down from my surgery, I would say that this is it. I was HOPING my drive would improve but it has not :( It has pretty much remained the same.

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My sex drive has went through the roof since surgery. I have always had a super high sex drive but since then my man can't keep up. He loves the challenge and I like it! At least it didn't scare him off.

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sorry just noticed it was the ladies room...edited post

I think hearing a guys perspective is great

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I think hearing a guys perspective is great

Thanks for respecting the powder room but I'm glad I got to read your post before u removed it!!! Hope you guys keep on keepin on!

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I'm only a month out and I am having the same experience. My guy says I'm always frisky after my TOM, but I feel like I just want it all the time

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Crap where are y'all getting the energy? I can barely take the kids swimming. I want some of y'all energy!

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I thought with less weight I'd feel sexier and my sex drive would increase, but it hasn't at all. I feel bad for my hubby because he's loving the changes in my body (although he loved it even when it was bigger), but I just don't feel it yet.

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