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I'm still using my surgery as an excuse not for sex! Now my "monthly" is here. I guess afterwards, I have to suck it up and do my wifely duties...no pun intended!

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My doctor said 3 weeks and take it slow. If you are in pain stop, just listen to your body.

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The only thing you need to worry about is the incisions in your abdomen.

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There was no way I could have waited as long as you ladies have haha. We had sex 3 days after my surgery. It was not uncomfortable at all, I was on top. Just go slow and don't get all freaky deaky hehe ????

HAHAHAHA....GIRL I HEAR YOU!!!!!

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I'm usually wanting it all the time but I have no sex drive left! We have done it once in five weeks since surgery. I have no energy and I just don't feel like it at all.

I don't know what I'm going to do if this is my new normal!

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I'm usually wanting it all the time but I have no sex drive left! We have done it once in five weeks since surgery. I have no energy and I just don't feel like it at all.

I don't know what I'm going to do if this is my new normal!

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I DONT THINK IT'S THE NEW NORM, I THINK IT'S THE HORMONES, TRAUMA TO THE BODY, STRESS ETC. I'VE NOTICED I BEEN DRY :((( ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY, I KEEP THINKING THIS CANT BE HOW IM GOING TI BE, DR SAID ITS MY HORMONES......AND UNTIL MY RIGHT SIDE HEALS COMPLETELY, THERE WON'T BE MUCH GOING ON...IT'S TOO MUCH!

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My doctor never mentioned it. I had sex week 2.

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I feel like my doctor had everything happen early. He took off all my bandages at my one week checkup. And I was approved for "personal physical activity" that day. I felt fine by week 2, and we took things easy. I wouldn't be trying any Cirque Du Soliel moves or anything....

One week after surgery my Doctor told me that I could go to the gym that day and run on the treadmill, eliptical, whatver I felt that I was confortable with. Just listen to your body.

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Thanks I hope it does return soon but right now I'm about to get Aunt Flo so I don't care.

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Wow....weeks? No way I could wait that long. My surgeon said we could do it as soon as I felt well enough.....so I woke him up early on day 4 post-op. He was hesitant, but I wouldn't take "no" for an answer. :)

It was fine. Just listen to your body!

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Am I the only one that that is so good my wife stays satisfied for 6 months at a time? I have to wonder will it grow to 12 months of satisfaction after surgery?

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Am I the only one that that is so good my wife stays satisfied for 6 months at a time? I have to wonder will it grow to 12 months of satisfaction after surgery?

Lol let's hope not! ;-)

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