I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask but I will anyway. I'm scheduled for gastric bypass feb 5th I already know my drs plans for pain management afterward but should my husband be taking time off of work to help me with my kids? Or will I be ok to function on my own with them when I get home from the hospital they are 5, 3, and 2 but my 5 year old goes to school. I know I have a good pain tolerance because when I had my csections I didn't take any pain killers I was sore but it was manageable. Thanks in advance

Hi, I think if it is at all feasible from a financial or work obligations standpoint, I would strongly suggest your husband stay home to take care of the younger kids. You will need some peace and calm after surgery to adjust to your new diet and supplements. All the best to you in your weight loss.

Hi, I think if it is at all feasible from a financial or work obligations standpoint, I would strongly suggest your husband stay home to take care of the younger kids. You will need some peace and calm after surgery to adjust to your new diet and supplements. All the best to you in your weight loss.

I agree if you can afford it have your husband stay home a few days. I have 4 small boys my surgery is Jan 20. I have someone coming into my home for 4 weeks to help out. I should mention that I am having open surgery so it requires longer down time. Good luck with your surgery!

I agree with DH taking time off if he can. I couldn't imagine caring for little ones right after surgery. I'd say 3 days off after you come home would be sufficient. I still felt weak but could function. I'd also prepare and freeze meals.

my hubby took the wk after my surgery off, we have 2 boys 1 and 7. It would have been hard the 1st few days w/o him!