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My boyfriend is having the sleeve on 12/31. Christmas was really tuff. We had my kids over for dinner and he is on a the pre-op liquid diet. I felt really bad even guilty about cooking a traditional Christmas feast.

Anyone out there feeling the same??

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My mom felt the same way. I had surgery Dec 16th, so I was on full liquids when Christmas rolled around. I told her not to worry about and it was the first of many times I would have to control my food lust; mainly because I didn't have a choice anymore! It was rough, and I did have to get out of the house for a while, but my family and the people on here were very supportive ???? best of luck to him!!! I have dropped 20 pounds in 2 weeks and I am still in disbelief, lol!!!

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<p>My boyfriend is having the sleeve on 12/31. Christmas was really tuff. We had my kids over for dinner and he is on a the pre-op liquid diet. I felt really bad even guilty about cooking a traditional Christmas feast.</p> <p> </p> <p>Anyone out there feeling the same??</p>

My husband had his band surg. Dec 4th., and Christmas was tuff at our house also. I did make him a sugar free desert with low fat cream cheese and Splenda, topped with juice from sugar free cherry pie filling. But you really do feel awful!

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5months out, weight at a stand still; need more cardio.

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Hi! My wife had gastric bypass on May 14th (her birthday). Pre-op diet was so hard. I felt bad every time I even mentioned being hungry. Now I'm just now getting over my guilt. Mainly because she doesn't have the same feeling toward food as before. She doesn't get hungry like before and I have to remind her to drink Water and eat.

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